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38 M London, UK

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:05pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Narziss and Goldmund; cynical romantic; optimistic pessimist; eternal dreamer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living on a narrowboat, teaching A-Level film and cultural studies, working in a library, projectionist at an independent cinema, spending a lot of time thinking about starting a PhD on the apocalypse in British cinema.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cycling. Cooking. Kissing. Talking all night then getting up early.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Are you Gilbert or George?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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These are a few of my favourite things:

Alan Clarke. Ballard, Beckett and Burroughs. Charlie Parker. Duck Soup. Eno. Flipside blurays. Gainsborough melodramas. Hollis Frampton. Into the Night/I Float Alone. Jessica Lea Mayfield. Kevin Coyne and Dagmar Krause. Laura Mulvey. Moon Over the Alley [film]. New age music tapes. Oskar Fischinger. Pre-code Hollywood. Quiz Show. Richard and Linda Thomson. Soviet culture of the 1930s. Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me. Utopia. Valerie and Her Week of Wonders. Wavelength. X-Ray Specs. Yoko Ono. Zabriskie Point.

You get the picture? You like these things too? Great!

Plus, everyone should see this:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Means of listening to music (usually an actual record player)
-Means of watching a film (usually the cinema I work for)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
an empty essay...come and fill me out. Or in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I actually live in Oxford. Let's face it, though, Oxford is essentially a well connected suburb of London.

Also, I'm terrible at making 'the first move'. Apologies in advance if you end up being the recipient of my attempts.
You should message me if
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You wanna do some of that fun autumn stuff. You know: walking in misty, fruitful woods; wrapping up in vintage knitwear; telling ghost stories by candlelight; drinking whisky next to bonfires...that sort of thing.