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38 M London, UK

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
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Mostly vegetarian
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
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Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Narziss AND Goldmund: cynical romantic, optimistic pessimist, eternal dreamer.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living on a narrowboat, teaching A-Level film and cultural studies, working in a library, projectionist at an independent cinema, spending a lot of time thinking about starting a PhD on the apocalypse in British cinema.
I’m really good at
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Cycling. Cooking. Kissing. Talking about films/music/culture/etc all night long. Then getting up early.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Are you Gilbert or George?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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So many, for instance:

Alan Clarke. Ballard, Beckett and Burroughs. Chelsea Girls. Duck Soup. Eno. Flipside blurays. Gainsborough melodramas. Hollis Frampton. Into the Night/I Float Alone. Jessica Lea Mayfield. Kevin Coyne and Dagmar Krause. Laura Mulvey. Moon Over the Alley [film]. New age music tapes. Oskar Fischinger. Pre-code Hollywood. Quiz Show. Richard and Linda Thomson. Soviet culture of the 1930s. Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me. Utopia. Valerie and Her Week of Wonders. Wavelength. X-Ray Specs. Yoko Ono. Zabriskie Point.

And so on and so on.

Plus, everyone should see this:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Means of listening to music (usually an actual record player)
-Means of watching a film (usually the cinema I work for)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
an empty essay...come and fill me out. Or in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I seem to have recently lost the ability to read fiction. I read sure enough - who doesn't - but mostly film history, cultural theory, The Wire, Sight & Sound, New Statesman... Hopefully this is not a problem withut cure.

Also, I actually live in Oxford. Let's face it, though, Oxford is essentially a well connected suburb of London.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You fancy hanging out and doing all that fun summer stuff - y'know: cycling; canoeing; picnicking; wild swimming; lying in fields all day looking at clouds until dusk comes along and then looking at stars. All that jazz.

Alternatively, you know somewhere really nice to go to for lunch. I seem to be in London for lunch most weekends.