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63 Norfolk, VA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 58–65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:48pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has cats

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My self-summary
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I have been widowed for seven years now, after 20 years of marriage. Initially, I am looking to date someone, but who knows what could happen after that? I would like to meet a man of integrity with a good sense of humor, possessing self-confidence and a nice smile - one who is sensitive, articulate, caring, witty, and who knows the difference between "your" and "you're" (lol). If you can keep up with my friendly sarcasm, that's a plus! There is so much more that I want to do in life. The only thing that I miss is someone special to share life with. If you are younger than I am, great...if a bit older, then I hope you can keep up!

I am friendly, outgoing, romantic, affectionate, sincere, optimistic, flexible, spontaneous, compassionate, a good listener, and I love to laugh. I enjoy attending any sporting event--especially baseball, football, and college basketball--and love watching many sports on TV. My other interests include traveling; gardening; walking; games that make you think, such as Scrabble and Pictionary; crossword puzzles; playing bridge; listening and dancing to beach/shaggin' music; walking; reading; amusement parks (especially the roller coasters!); and anything to do with the beach. Besides all the outdoor activities, I am also very comfortable sharing home time with the right person, for example, cooking together or watching movies. If you enjoy any of these, that's a big plus!

I do not care if the glass is half empty or half full...I am just thankful that I have a glass!

I have two children: My son graduated in 2010 from Virginia Tech with a degree in Aerospace Engineering (GO HOKIES!), and he now works in Washington, D.C. with The GBS Group as an Engineering Consultant. My daughter just graduated from Christopher Newport University with a double major in Criminology and Psychology. (GO CAPTAINS!). I am retired (working part time now for the fun of it), and I want to make the very most of the rest of my life. So, if you are looking for a good woman, and so many men here say they are, then please know that there are some of us here looking for you! If anything in my profile appeals to you, please don't hesitate to send me a message to introduce yourself!

"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love." --Tom Robbins--

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." --Carl Jung--

"The best things in life are truly unseen; that's why we close our eyes when we cry, kiss and dream."
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I am enjoying semi-retirement!
I’m really good at
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Gardening and creating a beautiful yard.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Most people tell me that my eyes are the first thing they notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite music, of course, is "Beach" music, or shagin' music! Favorite food is seafood. Books, movies, and shows depend on the genre.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Watching sports (especially college and pro football and college basketball); Coffee; Working in my yard; The beach; Socializing with friends/neighbors; Beach music!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I will ever find another true love of my life. I lost my first one, and I know there is someone else out there for me. I have so much to give, and I just need the right partner to share with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays in the summer, I am at the beach at Ocean View listening to the beach music bands!
You should message me if
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You are interested in meeting a fun-loving, interesting, and intelligent woman who loves to laugh and have a good time, and who does not look her age!

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