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Hollandn

25 / F / Gay / Single

Lawrence, Kansas

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 6:31am
Ethnicity
Black, White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am an open book...if you have something to ask, just ask. As long as it is within reason, you'll get an answer. Family and friends are the most important things to me. I value time with who I am dating but if you can't handle me hanging out with friends as well, you should probably stop reading now. I have a dog who is basically my kid. I love to be outdoors. Take me camping and I'll love you forever haha. A lot of my free time (the very little that I have) is spent at the park, dog parks, running the streets, hiking trails, and in the summer I am always either at the pool or lake. Preferably lake. I also love to play pool with a couple beers and great company. I am a huge sports fan (KU basketball and NY Giants fanatic). I am extremely out and open with my sexuality. I hope that my openness helps others feel more comfortable with it as well because it is something to be proud of, not ashamed. I can be shy when I first meet people but that goes away very quickly. You are then stuck with a sarcastic, loudmouth :) It takes a lot to offend me or to make me angry. So if you accomplish that easily, you are a piece of work ha. Trust and honesty are two of the most important qualities that I have and strive to have in people I surround myself with. I am mixed. My mother is Caucasian and my father is African American/Mexican. I do self admittedly have high standards. I find that to be one of my biggest flaws but it is something I can't help. Laughing is my favorite. I enjoy funny people and making others laugh. Sarcasm may be my favorite quality in a person.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working on my biology degree so that I can get into veterinary school. Server on the side while I am in school. Volunteer at animal shelters in my free time. Training for my first marathon. Starting a sleeve in the next few weeks on my right arm. I am also in the Air National Guard and have been for 7 years.
I’m really good at
making people laugh. Also I am a great listener. People always come to me if they need to get something off their mind. I am a pretty badass cook as well. I am also pretty knowledgeable about beer. I love a great beer and have a knack for turning those who hate beer into beer lovers.
The first things people usually notice about me
Are generally my smile or just overall appearance. But honestly that's typically what everyone notices first on a person so not tooting my own horn or anything. I am super sarcastic and always joking around with people. I am very easy going and people feel like they can confide in me pretty quickly. I genuinely love people so if my smiling or talking to someone helps them have a better day, I'll be that person. Positivity radiates out of me. Well 97% of the time anyways haha.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many to list honestly. I love to read, watch movies, go to concerts, and of course eat. I will literally try any food at least once as long as it is not shellfish (allergy). I love ALL music...from country to alternative to rock to rap to blues. Basically if it's good then I am all about it. That can pretty much be said for all things in my life. Surround myself with good/positive things.
The six things I could never do without
Family, Friends, My dog, Music, Nature, Food/Beer (food and beer go hand and hand in my book ;) )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything...brains always working away. But mostly my future, school, warm weather, and how far I need to run this week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am afraid of the dark...like deathly afraid. And I am not super confident. I had a rough go at it in middle school and I've always carried that low self image with me. That doesn't mean I fish for compliments. It just means that compliments can make me feel awkward. Ha it's odd but it's me. Take it or leave it. I also do think looks are very important in the person I date. Some say that makes me shallow and ill take it. But obviously that is not the only criteria. It is just what first intrigues me to a person. And who wouldn't want to wake up to a gorgeous face in the am?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 19–34
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you actually read my bio and didnt just look at my pictures. I know I got super carried away with my answers but I see the word essay and I cant help but type away haha. You are able to take a joke, open minded, honest, and looking for more than just a hook up. Also, if all you have to say is "Hi" or "How are you?", don't even waste your time. I won't respond. First impressions are everything and that's the easiest way to not get a reply from me. Also, I'm a lesbian. I'm not on here for dudes or to be a part of a couple's threesome fantasy. I genuinely want to meet a nice girl or even a few good new friends.