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44 Leeds, UK Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 20
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I work p/t to leave space for reading, Venn diagrams, stone circles, making things, scrabble, yoga. Fancy sharing any of these or teaching me something new? Life is fascinating, especially the blurry edges of current science.
Ex festi raver, it was good while it lasted...when they were free.
If you're looking for a skinny clothes horse, it aint me. I love food & I'm happy with my curves.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being curious. Free courses at there's so much to learn.
Working for an arts charity, volunteering in various ways and looking for a bit of magic.
Banning myself from the internet every Saturday. There's a real world out there somewhere.
Reining in my anti-authoritarianism, which doesn't mean I've given in. Rebelling a lot more quietly these days.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making friends and lists, listening, entertaining, making things happen, being funny I think!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No idea, probably the pink fringe.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love going to see Kneehigh theatre, Mark Thomas, Red Ladder.

Books I've loved: PopCo, Jitterbug Perfume, Mona Lisa Overdrive, Prometheus Rising, Wild Sheeps Chase, His Dark Materials, Breakfast of Champions, Dune, Dice Man. The SCUM manifesto makes me laugh.

Films I've enjoyed more than once: Strictly Ballroom, Harold & Maude, Bladerunner but no unicorn, no sense.

Music- pretty wide. Have failed to enjoy opera unless it's the Tiger Lillies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I need a thneed. Or maybe a tribble.
New things to learn.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People's strange little ways and programming.
If only I had a magic tardis van that never went wrong.
There must be a better way to run the world. Why are humans so shortsighted? What's for dinner? The 50 special things I'm going to do this year, so far includes: Krakow, Yorks Wildlife park, Budapest, dinner at Prashad, sowed some seeds; one treat a week is keeping me busy..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Might be planning a trip to somewhere new, by water or to see some art.
Or practising the ukulele (sorry world).
Or eating with friends, or sommat else.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't really have secrets. Oh, except okc won't let me change my birthday. I'm 49, eek. Tho' you wouldn't know it if you met me (dating cliche, apologies)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you have a mind of your own and appreciate it in others.
- you don't expect me to starve meself, wear heels, or pretend to be stupid.
- you've 'liked me'. I can't see who you are cos I haven't paid up. Gwan, message me, what's the worst that can happen?
- you'd like a longterm relationship if the right woman came along.
Extra marks to you if you think feminists have a point.