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39 • Orange, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 1:32am
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Agnosticism, and very serious about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
Movies: Quality Sci-Fi.
TV: Mythbusters, Good Eats, Family Guy.
Music: Prog metal (Symphony X, Ayreon, etc.), prog rock (Yes, 70's Genesis, Camel, etc.). Also Thomas Dolby.
Food: Quality quick food (Panda Express, Famous Dave's BBQ).
As of today (2012.05.08),
*I've only been on a date once --arranged by my mother, and nothing happened.
*And I've never had sex, nor even gotten to first base, meaning I've never even done romantic kissing.
*Well it's not that I'm not into sex or women; no, to be candid, like any typical healthy guy, I find women around my age very attractive and masturbate about 2x per week happily thinking of them.
*It's just that, unlike most everyone, and for reasons even I didn't know, I was never seeking & wanting personal connections with people, I just wanted to work at home on geeky things especially computers.
**Indeed the latter (my typical life activities), plus my also being homely and stable and very close with my family, is the reason my good-friend SaberPen then suggested for me the username I use here, Home-Geek.
***Indeed SaberPen also got me into Android programming, and led me to 2nd-in-command in his local 200+ member Android group he runs & effectively-founded, and led me to my present Android coding job.
***But how how did I even come to *have* a significant friend in my condition? Because recently it's largely gone away!
But recent discovery & life!
*Fortunately in 2011 October I was given Prozac for the first time and suddenly to my enormous delight my problem of not seeking & wanting personal connections has largely gone away! So
**Doctors conclude all it just that I was just born with some chemical deficiency, that no one until now understood.
**And slowly I'm now finding & making new friends!
**And now, 7 months later (2012.05.08), at my good-friend SaberPen's encouragement & suggestion, I joined this site okcupid to really explore romance for the first time. :-)
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