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38 M Orange, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a computer nerd from Illinois who spends way too much time at home. I came to California to meet people and try new things.

Off-topic note MDGBG3: Are you getting the most from OkCupid? There are few bugs you need to work around.
What I’m doing with my life
Computer nerd by profession, training, and hobby. Came to California to start making movies!
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't get noticed. :^(
But after they've know me a while, they'll either complain about my missing chin or tiny glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I've given up on novels, don't really know why. I just read news and info on the Internet.
Movies: Quality Sci-Fi.
TV: Mythbusters, Good Eats, Family Guy.
Music: Prog metal (Symphony X, Ayreon, etc.), prog rock (Yes, 70's Genesis, Camel, etc.). Also Thomas Dolby.
Food: Quality quick food (Panda Express, Famous Dave's BBQ).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How things work. In fact, one of my main drives in life is to learn how everything works. If you have a deep interest in something, I'll probably grill you on it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
(Home-Geek's note: The below was written for me by my friend SaberPen. While this is considerably more verbose than I would post, it is in fact precise, and SaberPen believes such precision is valuable here. Due to his experience, I'm posting his suggestion as-is.)

As of today (2012.05.08),
*I've only been on a date once --arranged by my mother, and nothing happened.
*And I've never had sex, nor even gotten to first base, meaning I've never even done romantic kissing.

*Well it's not that I'm not into sex or women; no, to be candid, like any typical healthy guy, I find women around my age very attractive and masturbate about 2x per week happily thinking of them.
*It's just that, unlike most everyone, and for reasons even I didn't know, I was never seeking & wanting personal connections with people, I just wanted to work at home on geeky things especially computers.
**Indeed the latter (my typical life activities), plus my also being homely and stable and very close with my family, is the reason my good-friend SaberPen then suggested for me the username I use here, Home-Geek.
***Indeed SaberPen also got me into Android programming, and led me to 2nd-in-command in his local 200+ member Android group he runs & effectively-founded, and led me to my present Android coding job.
***But how how did I even come to *have* a significant friend in my condition? Because recently it's largely gone away!

But recent discovery & life!
*Fortunately in 2011 October I was given Prozac for the first time and suddenly to my enormous delight my problem of not seeking & wanting personal connections has largely gone away! So
**Doctors conclude all it just that I was just born with some chemical deficiency, that no one until now understood.
**And slowly I'm now finding & making new friends!
**And now, 7 months later (2012.05.08), at my good-friend SaberPen's encouragement & suggestion, I joined this site okcupid to really explore romance for the first time. :-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
.. you want a reply!
.. you're trying to reach your quota. (Really, I won't be offended.)
.. you think I can help break the ice with some other, much hotter, guy.
.. I answered a question "wrong".