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33 M Constantia, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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***Updated July 28th, 2013***

After spending seven of the last eight years as a High School teacher (and recently retired college basketball coach) in Florida, I've decided to take a leap of faith and return home to CNY to be closer to family ....and to enjoy the outdoors/four seasons. While the what (job) still needs to be worked out (I can always sub), I have realized that the who (family) and where (CNY) are more important.

So thats the update, I switched my Ok profile to CNY when I came home for summer vacation ...but now that I've decided to stay I really would love to find that special someone.

So, about me...

I would describe myself as a "Passionate Explorer". I am inquisitive and love to discover new things and seek out new experiences--in both my personal and professional life.

Words to describe me: Genuine, Optimistic, Funny, Down to Earth, Caring, Upstate New Yorker, Dog-lover, Teacher, Coach, Honest, Easy-Going, Libra, Good Listener, Affectionate, Goofy (in a good way), Dependable, Passionate, Perceptive, Rambler....and the list goes on.

What I am looking for...

A woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go for it; a woman who likes her man to be a man but still able to show his emotions. Balance is important to her; she is a hard worker but doesn't  let her job consume all of her energy or focus. She enjoys nice things, but is down to earth and not overly materialistic . She wants a man in her life, but doesn't need one. She knows that she and her man will be worth more together than apart. She enjoys the simple things in life but can also be spontaneous. She enjoys new experiences and likes to explore far-off places, as well as those close by. She likes the outdoors and nature but she also likes the hustle and bustle of a busy city. This balance and contrast is the essence of who she is. She is smart and loves dogs. She is both centered and content, but being with people she cares about is very important to her. She is kind and considerate, she is naturally caring with those who have earned her trust. She wants a man who understands her--one she doesn't need to tell what she wants, but who just knows. A man who can be the closest person to her, to help her make decisions, and to always be there and offer her strength when she needs it.

If you are interested let me know.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just decided to take a leap of faith and move back to CNY. I was a High School Social Studies teacher at a Title 1 school in Florida and recently retired from coaching college basketball. I was an Assistant Men's Basketball Coach at a Division 1 Junior College in Florida.
I’m really good at
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Everything :P
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes or THE dimple....then usually how genuine I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Tuesday's with Morrie, Leading with the Heart, For One More Day, How to Be like Coach Wooden, Walking in Circles before lying down, The Secret, Inside of a Dog, The Tao of Pooh, The Art of Racing in the Rain

Movies: Hoosiers, Serendipity, The Hunger Games, Power of One, Marley and Me, Avatar, Lean on Me, Silver Linings Playbook, Thor, Christmas Vacation, White Men Can't Jump, The Breakfast Club, Summer School, The Karate Kid, Horrible Bosses, The Vow....lots more.

TV Shows: How I Met Your Mother, The Big Bang Theory, Revolution, Modern Family, Two Broke Girls, Happy Endings. Old shows: The West Wing, Seinfeld, Knight Rider.

Music: I like a wide variety. Some of the artists in my iTunes: DMB, Snow Patrol, Huey Lewis and the News, Steve Winwood, Black Eyed Peas, First Aid Kit, James Taylor, Billy Joel, FloRida, Sarah MacLaughlin, Mariah Carey, Bruce Springsteen, Tupac, Michael Jackson, Bruce Hornsby, 3 Doors Down, Tim McGraw, TLC, Wiz Khalifa, Journey, Lady GaGa, Madonna, Whitney Houston, Rod Stewart, Men Without Hats, GymClassHeroes, James Brown, Louis Armstrong.

Food: Gnocci, Steak, Yogurt, Cereal, Vegetables, Fruit, Sushi, Ice Cream, Shimp. If it tastes good I like it. I have a sweet tooth. I HATE fried foods though...nasty.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Education, Family, My Dog, Connectivity, Love, The Basics (Food, Water, Shelter).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to do next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying the company of friends/family and hopefully enjoying the outdoors
You should message me if
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You are a non smoker who is looking to have fun with an awesome guy who has recently decided that CNY is the place to be.