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27 Saint Louis, MO Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 23
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I really like tree tunnels - you know, when trees on either side of the road/path/sidewalk come together overhead? Yeah. I love to sit and chat, go for walks, cook and bake. I'm a Christian AND a feminist. I like lavender - the color and the plant. I work really hard to keep my houseplants alive - mostly it's been a success. I like to run and swim and do yoga - mostly I'm trying to find ways to say "I love you" to my body. I love a good hike. And a good laugh. I find board games a perfectly lovely way to pass an evening. I used to want to be Laura Ingalls Wilder - can't say I'm completely over that childhood phase. I eat chocolate basically every day. Some people think I'm really funny. I tend to give way too much detail when I tell a story - it's endearing, I promise. I like grocery shopping. I spent a year volunteering and living in intentional community in Tacoma, WA, between college and grad school through a program called Jesuit Volunteer Corps - the experience was quite formative for me. Being born in a body that matches my gender identity, being a lady who's attracted to dudes, and having white skin means I walk through this world with quite a bit of privilege - I try to be a good listener and a good ally and a part of the tide turning toward justice, but I'm certain I do that pretty imperfectly. Oh, and my friends want you to know I am a great catch. So there you go.
What I’m doing with my life
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Eating avocados like it's my job and pretending that I can afford to shop at Whole Foods.

Doing headstands and handstands against the wall like a boss. This is a new skill, and I insist on talking about it a lot. Because being upside down is the bee's knees.

But seriously, I am a social worker implementing a youth development program in a high school, and I love it. We work on communication skills, healthy relationships, figuring out their values, and community service learning projects. High schoolers are funny, so I've got some pretty good stories.

I'm working on licensure to practice therapy in the state of MO.

I just completed an olympic distance triathlon - my first ever. It was really hard, and I'm really proud of myself. It's nice to remind yourself you can do hard things by, well, doing hard things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, finely executed cartwheels, baking birthday cakes, hosting potlucks, reading aloud, keeping a straight face when people say utterly ridiculous things, flying by the seat of my pants.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I get comments on my smile a lot.

Also, I'm quite direct. A "straight-shooter", if you will.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Toni Morrison, Chaim Potok, Alice Walker, spiritual non-ficiton, and lots of other delightful reading material.

I prefer folk and bluegrass music, but I've been known to bust out some awesome dance moves to some top 40 hits, crank the country music in my car, and enjoy a good sing-along to some church songs.

I love summer tomatoes with fresh basil, beets, goat cheese, winter squash, ice cream, cheese-filled pasta, guacamole, vietnamese spring rolls, beer cheese soup, and home-made bread.

I watch New Girl, Parenthood, and Downton Abbey.

I love listening to NPR's On Being with Krista Tippett - maybe a little old fashioned to list a favorite radio show, but why not?

I choose movies by going to the public library and reading the backs of the movie boxes until I find one that sounds good. I have been ridiculed mercilessly by my friends for this method, but it works for me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
chocolate, loved ones, books, cast iron pans, windows, hugs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I'm going to make for dinner, the Enneagram, making meaning out of life experiences
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lovin' on my friends; grocery shopping; or camped out on the couch with a book, some letters to write, and some tea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There are these glazed bricks that are in a lot of older St. Louis buildings, and I get absurdly excited whenever I see them.

I own overalls. And I wear them. In public.

I don't generally wear make up. (Sensitive skin, consumerism, beauty standards - so many reasons not to!)

These things are not terribly private, but this is the internet and you are a stranger, after all.
You should message me if
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... you are kind and gentle and smart and care deeply about social justice. If you are not too scared to be emotionally vulnerable, and you communicate in an open, honest way. If you have some moral fortitude, but you're not on the prowl for ways everyone else is breaking your moral code.