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26 Pismo Beach, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 30
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm the type of guy who likes to stop to pet cats that cruise around the neighborhood. I'm kind and sensitive but also have a quirky and somewhat twisted sense of humor. People describe me as friendly and approachable, though deep inside I experience some social anxiety.

Watching Netflix or reading a book by a fire appeals to me more than going a nightclub, though I do appreciate fine dining with a glass of wine. The beach is my sanctuary, as is anywhere outdoors. I grew up surfing and kayaking on the Central Coast of CA so the beach is my go-to hangout. I make it a priority to be active and immerse myself in nature as much as possible.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working part-time as a behavioral therapist for kids with autism while taking a couple online classes. I'm currently applying to graduate school where I anticipate getting my master's degree in speech-language pathology.
I’m really good at
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surfing, lucid dreaming, smiling and being friendly, bonding with animals
The first things people usually notice about me
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When I'm clean shaven, people often mistake me for a 16 year old. I'm also pretty short.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: memoirs, murder mysteries, non-fiction, coffee table books, fantasy, historical fiction, anything that can catch my attention within the first few pages. I have a bad habit of starting a book and abandoning when I come another one that catches my interest, so I'll often read 3 or 4 books at the same time and only get through 2/3 of all of them. I'm particularly fond of David Sedaris.

Movies: documentaries, foreign, independent, psychological thrillers, comedies, sci -fi, historical fiction, Disney, Pixar. Some favorites: Step into Liquid, Samsara, Baraka, Wall-e, Mean Girls

Shows: Parks and Recreation, Criminal Minds, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Workaholics, Orange is the New Black, Arrested Development, Breaking Bad, How I Met Your Mother, 30 Rock

Music: I like a little bit of everything.

Food: Mexican, Thai, Japanese, Indian, avocados, pineapple, cheese, chocolate, coffee, and begrudgingly gluten-free due to skin allergies
The six things I could never do without
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the beach, animal companionship, an internet connection, healthy food, a good night's sleep, self-confidence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I'm going to eat next, dreams I had the night before, what I should be doing with my hands
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ideally, having dinner and drinks with friends, but more often watching something on netflix, doing a crossword puzzle or reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am transgender. I was born female but have identified as male since childhood, and expect to be treated accordingly. I have been on hormone replacement therapy (testosterone) for 4 years and had chest surgery last March.
You should message me if
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you are open-minded and seek platonic or romantic companionship, enjoy the beach, philosophizing, or the idiosyncrasies of the human spirit