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30 Balham, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Feb 15
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
London based..

Update: so this profile started off as an experiment and I've been talking to more people internationally. It's been brilliant as I thought it would be good to understand how different countries think about their sexuality and, how I can learn from others as to what they have tried. Some of the conversations I've had have been really open and enjoyable, and made some friends along the way too :)

This doesn't mean I'm jumping on a plane to jump in bed (tempting though..) rather I'm taking suggestions. I'm hoping to then turn this into a bucket list of things to try based on these conversations. If you have a skill or something you're confident doing then tell me! Top marks if you have skype and want to talk this way.

Have you ever just put in the search function your location to be anywhere and go with highest match percentage? Do it!

Taking into account the above may be full on for some, if you just fancy a natter then that works too about anything..I'm sure the above paragraph will limit my audience somewhat so let me prove you wrong that I'm not just about it :)

Living in London, but in Edinburgh too a lot.

Now the normal stuff..

Like most people I want to date, but also understand people (both in bed and out). If you're curious about this then let me know, big fan of open communication. This stems from an unsatsifying sex life until recently.

The photo, well mainly thats just to get some views...It is me though :)

About me:

Professional working in London
Enjoys travelling to both hot and cold countries
Has an accent
Tries to keep fit, work gets in the way sometimes.
Happy to talk to anyone within reason :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it! That's what we are all here for, this experience should help... too many people get bogged down in the games of online dating, if you agree, you should message me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being open with people
First dates
BBQing (lack of practise in London of this)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
On here - it'll be my up frontness
Off here - probably there's a gent lurking behind this profile, I am honest but I am not rude, manners are key.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies - I won't confess to be a film buff, but the Batman films, Inception, Shutter Island are all good

Oh if you didn't well up at the end of "Warrior" then you have a heart of stone...not sure why but it's epic!

Music - Counting crows through to Josh Groban...eclectic taste
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet
Friday nights
My friends
My right hand
Condoms (safety first kids)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex - I'm a guy, this should be natural. But more about why people have it, what turns everyone on (we are all the same skin, but no person is turned on the same way, epic).
Dating - interesting people on here and had some great dates
Work - standard I guess, nice to relax outside of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends recovering from the working week!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to go for confident woman who want to explore things with me, or just have a chat about what they enjoy. I'm really on here to learn more what you ladies enjoy!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're curious
You're honest
You can hold a conversation (crucial!)
You want to come to burlesque with me, might be a fun date!
You understand this profile is a bit of an experiment, and it's not just someone who wants sex