Taller, heavier guys with facial hair... move to the front of the line. I like bears! Don't worry if you're not. I wont ignore you.

I'm a divorced mom of 2 amazing boys. I've been divorced for almost 5 years now and it's time to find a special guy for a meaningful, long term relationship. I am definately looking for something with the possibility of a future. But if sparks don't fly and things don't work out that way, I would also like to just make some new friends to spend time with. This means I am also open to meeting women for friendships, though I am not advertising myself to the female population. I'd love to go out to eat or catch a movie with someone. I do have more guy friends than girl friends, but I am tired of being "just friends" all the time. I want a guy to call my own.... one who isn't afraid to call me his baby and introduce me to his friends and family. It's been far too long that I've been alone in that regards.
My schedule is pretty tight. I work nights Monday through Friday and I get my kids on the weekends. But I am willing to make some time to get to know someone if they can also be a little flexible with me!

What I am NOT looking for is a meaningless fling. Nor am I readily available for a spontaneous blow job (I'm not kidding.) There is a reason I did not choose "Casual Sex" as one of my options. I am not looking to be someone's f*@k buddy, nor do I want to be the "other woman." So if you are married and/ or are in an open relationship, I don't want any part of it. I need to be the only woman in your life. Not an option. I invest too much time and emotional commitment in my relationships to waste it on a meaningless, dead end, part time encounter with no future. When I love, I love hard and I don't hold back anything. I hope someone sees that potential in me and will let me be a part of their life.

*I am going to say it here because some people don't bother reading my profile to the end. I am NOT looking for phone sex, Skyping or webcam of any kind. I do not even own a webcam. So if that's all you're interested in, then please move on to the next pretty face you see. I am looking for something REAL from this website. That means meeting someone in real life. Not in another country or another state or over the phone. Thanks.

Holy crap.... this has got to be the most addictive, happy song in the world. Makes me smile every time!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFVDv_Jhf2w&feature=share&list=FLR-P5f3YUnk_KKhOQms6YRQ

"I'm not living.... I'm just killing time."

"Let me in, where only your thoughts have been. Let me occupy your mind, as you do mine."

Conversation...... and stuff. I have exceptional oral skills. You know... talking, eating, kissing, drinking, that kind of stuff. Yeah. ;)
Procrastination. Caring too much. Being late. Driving in the snow. Doubting myself. Smelling incredible. Attracting douchebags. Ignoring red flags...

Honest people will say it is my breasts. Polite people will say my eyes. Then, of course, there's my hair (it changes a few times a year.) Actually, some people are made aware by hearing me before they ever see me. Don't know if that's a good or a bad thing.... And I'm not skinny.
I have tattoos and piercings, but not in excess and they are tasteful. (I did not say tasty...)

Books- I like anything by Michael Slade, Carl Sagan, Martin Gardner, Dean Koontz, John Saul, Robert Doherty, Robin Cook. I also like Naruto manga.

I don't have cable, so I miss out on alot. The only movies I ever watch are the ones I own on DVD.
-The Fountain, Happy Texas, Cherry Blossoms, My Name is Khan, Kama Sutra, The Reader, Requiem for a Dream, Japanese Story... I like foreign films. I enjoyed the X-Files when it was on TV. And MST3K. I also own the complete Lexx series and the original 16 volumes of Naruto.

I love Japanese, Thai and Asian food. Middle Eastern/ Levantine is awesome. Mediterranean and Italian are great, too. I eat out all the time. I used to always eat out alot with Darrell, but he has taken those privileges away from me. Possibly permanently. :( You can ask me about Darrell. I'll tell you all about him.
Thai Pot Cafe, Mataam Fez, Jerusalem, Marrakech, Taki's on Colfax, Kokoro, Swing Thai, Heidi's Brooklyn Deli, Jose O'Shea's, Pasquini's, Big City Burritos, Royal India, Pete's Kitchen, The Melting Pot, Maggiano's, The Cheesecake Factory. And Whole Foods' chocolate mousse!!!!!

I give all types of music a chance. But more often than not I am listening to techno, EDM, dubstep, etc. Some of the variety I listen to would include: Sigur Ros/ Jonsi, Parov Stelar, Radiohead/ Thom Yorke, Incubus, Ellie Goulding, Passion Pit, Skrillex, Burial, Trentemoller, Massive Attack, Fear Factory, Mika, Mt. Eden Dubstep, Martin Solveig, Coldplay, Avicii, Alesso, Mumford and Sons, SHM, Bjork, Dead Can Dance, Daft Punk, PanPot, Dapayk, Deadmau5, TMBG, Bloody Beetroots, Muse, DJ Shadow, DJ Krush. I also really like Turkish music (Tarkan, Murat Boz, Kenan Dogulu, Sultan Tunc, Soner Sarikabadayi, Davut Guloglu, Kazim Koyuncu.) Bonus points if you recognize any of the Turkish artists I mentioned.

In no particular order...
1. my phone
2. my laptop (it has all my photos, music, videos and the internet)
3. intense make out sessions
4. music
5. my kids
6a. my cats- You must be able to at least tolerate cats. I have 3.
6b. my car
6c. Darrell (yeah, I said it!)

Sexy big guys with facial hair... and what I'd like to do to them.
Honestly, I try not to think too much. It hurts. But there are so many things I'd like to change in my life right now. I just get overwhelmed sometimes. I think alot about my kids.... how I could be a better parent. I don't see them as much as I'd like to. :(

At work! I work nights and I never get a Friday off. :(

I am not a private person and I will tell you anything, honestly. I can't think of anything too private right now! Ummm... I do get acne still, sometimes. But that would be obvious.

You're a tall, sexy, bearded beast who is serious about meeting a good, passionate woman.

You've already considered it before you got this far. ;)

You should definately message me if I messaged you first, no matter the circumstances.

You find me remotely interesting, you like what I have to say and you wanna meet me sometime! We can exchange numbers and chat for a bit. Then maybe we can meet up for coffee or drinks or whatever. It would be extremely helpful if you lived relatively close to Denver and had your own means of transportation, also.

I've answered over 700 of those questions they ask you and alot of things have changed in my life in the several months it's been since I filled those out. I try to keep them updated and add explanations as needed. But please don't necessarily judge me based on that. I am amazed at how many people actually read my answers and ask me about some of the things I've said. I totally forget alot of them! And I'm sure I would change some of the answers if I had the time to go over them all again.

Please do NOT message me if you are in another state and have no plans on meeting me. Or if you are just after phone sex or Skyping or whatever. I am tired of getting hit up for that! Waste of my time....