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42 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last online
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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, Spanish
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a tall, confident, successful man with emotional intelligence and a quick wit.

I enjoy volunteering with animals, running the Lyon Street Stairs, grabbing delicious food with friends in this amazing city and urban hikes.

I know that I'm probably a little bit older than you but I don't think age is the most important thing. Do you? Why am I dating younger? I want to start a family. I take awesome care of myself and I have longevity in my genes. All my photos are recent. If you're looking for a serious relationship... I am ready.

I have a big heart and not afraid to show my feelings.

I would really appreciate finding somebody who is affectionate and enjoys being close and likes touch or cuddling. Lol. It feels funny to write that on my profile but I do think it is one of my love languages . Touch and intimacy, and expressing love (when appropriate) is important to me.

I also know that I'm really ready for a relationship that will last the rest of my life. That is the only reason I am online dating. Hopefully this works! If we do find each other on Okc I'm going to give you as much time as you want to get to know me. I will stop dating other people and take my profile down. Commitment breeds commitment.

In my previous life I was a Park Ranger and also did some Back Country Ranger work that involved things like trail clearing. I care about the environment. I am concerned about climate change and species extinction. I did some training with Al Gore in Chicago and helped make a movie about species extinction titled Call of Life. I also think it's fun to volunteer at farm sanctuaries.

I am super laid back, easy going, light hearted, fun and easy to get along with.

I am extremely optimistic, upbeat, and I am told that I am funny.

I have an interest in raising our collective consciousness and having a positive impact in the world.

I Definitely have an adventurous side! This adventurous side has a wide range of fun things that I enjoy doing. For example, I enjoy taking in live music at places like the Independent, the Fillmore or the Chapel on Valencia. Also I think travel and enjoying the world's flora and fauna, and learning about other cultures and trying their food and swimming in their oceans is a great way to spend my time!

Has anyone told you about Arroyo Seco? It is an amazing Canyon with waterfalls and swimming holes and canyons locally!

I'm a guy with big dreams and a real plan! I like having goals and achieving them. I say dream big and set it in motion! I am definitely ready to meet the one and be monogamous. Although I'm not in a hurry. I can be patient, but if you showed up today I think we would both be pretty stoked.

Let's see what else can I tell you? I enjoy living in San Francisco and if you are not living here I would like to show you some of the best non touristy neighborhoods and urban hikes.

Some topics that interest me are science, psychology, spirituality, politics, food, relationships, travel, the environment, meditation, health and exercise. It's okay if they are not on your list. I got them covered and have realized I don't need my duplicate.

Last weekend I went canoeing down the Russian River and wine tasting in Napa. This weekend I want to bike across the Golden Gate Bridge and have brunch in Sausalito. Perhaps I can squeeze in a hike to Mt Tam or Muir Woods as well. I love Marin and Sonoma counties!

One of my favorite things to do is swimming in rivers. Someday I will have a dog and kids that will hopefully jump in with me. I think it would be cool to have a house on the Russian River in Guernville and one in San Francisco so that my future wife and I can enjoy the best of both worlds, a gorgeous, romantic, fun city and a house with a yard and room for a garden and a place to build and life together.

Maybe even a house in Hawaii. It's only a 5 hour flight!

My intention is to raise kids and give them, and my wife and I, a happy life and a reliable home and hopefully we will all be wise and empathetic.

Okay not to be a Debbie Downer but I have to tell you a couple of things I am NOT:
1. Douche bag
2. Tool
3. Bad boy that will treat you poorly
4. A drunk
5. Peter Pan
6. A liar
7. A cheat

I'm actually finding it difficult to write about myself but I am told that this is what the bio is for and to try and express the many aspects of me... so I will continue.

I will make you laugh and feel special. I have been told that i have a fun and loving and warm personality.

What am I looking for? Ideally I would like to engage with someone that is very sweet and has a big heart and is willing to open up and share it with me. I also really need someone that is capable of deep, intimate and frequent communication because neither one of us are mind readers and the only way to keep from building resentments and closing off is too have emotionally intelligent communication.

I feel that there are a couple types of people in the world: Those that work on themselves and those that don't... When it comes to finding a relationship, an analogy is that water seeks its own level... so I want to be as healthy as I can and I want to be my best self, ... and that's why I have spent time on self introspection, awareness and growth. I think it has paid off well.

My two brothers mean the world to me. I love those guys and we own a company together that is successful and I really enjoy seeing them at work. We also hired two of our best friends. How fun is that? We have a really great business model and a fun work environment.

I am in a great place in my life, confident in who I am and feel enthusiastic about what the future has in store.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Staying present, writing in my gratitude journal, playing outdoors a lot, and thinking about my next adventure and how cool it would be if I met someone on here and they came with me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing profiles. Obvs!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am making eye contact or that I am smiling or cracking you up or that I am genuine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Emotional awareness and clarity, a calm mind, a fun personality, an adventurous spirit, travel, deep ecology, active listening, my two brothers and the fun you and I could have at Mumford and Sons this weekend in Golden Gate Park at Outside Lands if we already knew each other.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think fun comes from who you are with rather than necessarily what you are doing. So I think about finding a relationship where we really enjoy each other.

I like the saying "the couple that plays together stays together".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Of course there is the usual dinner with friends but I also think it would be fun to take off on a Friday right after work and head into wine country and start with a soak in some hot mineral pools in Calistoga under the stars. If we spend the night perhaps a morning mud bath before setting up a picnic and maybe instead of driving to each winery finding some back roads where we could bike to some cute ones.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I want depth with one person. Not surface relationships with many online dates/ women. I am afraid that internet dating is full of surface relationships and does not lend itself easily to depth with one person. But I am willing to try.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are kind and interested and it's super fun life.