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Honolululo

53 F Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:06am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hawaiian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Many consider me to be too honest for my own good but I don't play games (and I don't like men that go silent or lie or make excuses or worse yet Don't show up /disappear or can"t man up enough to finish the email /text/date like mature adults by saying goodby) With me - saying it the way it really is Usually is always the best policy - unless one or both of us are in an acting role in a movie - basic Courtesy is an adult quality - rudeness is childish and a sign of immaturity which is definatly not manly)
I am an agnostic but tolerant of most beliefs that are not the causes of war or degradation of women and people in general.
I am a Libra with a Scorpio rising - who usually likes to maintain balance but can protect my needs and ideas with venom if needed.
I have a BA - an MA - and an MFA. So intelligence is very important in my men even for the occasional short-term encounters - humor is also vital.
I am a widow for the last 7 years and have 2 sons in college and graduate school. I am in the entertainment industry and live in Los Angeles most of the time - but also in Hawaii sometimes.
I have No pets as I travel too much - but I like dogs. I watch my diet but eat most foods and work out 2-3 times a week but still am NOT the slim/trim/athletic type - I am a mature womanly, curvy, voluptuous female who is looking for a man for an ongoing friends-with-benefits frequent liaison playmate - this man must be smart / funny /attractive and real - not a man who misrepresents himself or one who only want to chat etc. in cyberspace and never meet up in real-time - so men who want to explore and enjoy more levels of
Intimacy than just a few dates allow might want to contact me to see if we have enough chemistry for an extended liaison .

When asked - I say that some men think of me as exotic and sensual and I prefer men who are not just sexual but also very sensual and erotic and who are not unethical selfish players but instead men who are considerate and intuitive.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
This is the time that I can Finally peruse my passion to produce films and write screenplay and books.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Scrabble - National Ranking
Video Poker - I often win in Vegas
Networking
Writing
Conversation
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes -which I am told are very exotic and/ or
My cleavage which has been discribed as more than ample and very real.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Interview with the Vampire
The Godfather. --
Avatar ----- too many movies to name really

TV ---- True Blood
Game of Thrones
Supernatural

Classic rock / mood music/ movie themes

Food - Lobster / Italian / steak / mushrooms/white Wine /chocolate
(although I try to eat healthy when possible - I refuse to eat Vegan or strict Vegetarian - if that is important to you best you go to the next choice )
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Sons
My Independence
My Career
Intimacy
My Family & Friends
My Belief in Myself
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Story Lines. - Movies - pleasurable activities and places - my next story
Places I have been and still intend to visit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a mixer or a screening or with a date or friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will tell you if I like you but it says that I will admit to something personal publicly -no I won't here - so later!
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 39–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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If You like women who are independent, semi-Alpha , sensual & sexual , caring and affectionate , intelligent and humorous but not overly religious / political / or extreme about anything from diet to saving the world- then I am your type and I might like you as well.I am very up front and I like men who are too - BUT if you want a girl who is the slim/trim/tall/or petite girlie or starlet/model type and is more package than content ---THEN PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME -- Also if you are younger than 35 please don't even bother to ask - it is just too young for me and I will erase you. However If you are mature for your age Man ( not boy) over 39 then- if you want a woman who knows what she wants and who she really is -- then know that I am very womanly, with real curves, maturity, humor, experience, and enthusiasm for life and most social interaction. Are you a man who can handle a woman who likes conversation, fun and intimacy - and is attractive, intelligent, humorous, fun and adventurous but also Very Independent-
If you are attracted to a female . Are you a man who really enjoys being with a woman & also knows how to be a lover -- then please contact me - NOTE!!! This DOES NOT mean one-night stands BUT it should mean at least friends-with-benefits and a regular ongoing liaison to a long term relationship - so please note that a reasonable level of social interaction (going out to dinner or a movie or an event) and coffee or drinks and real conversation is ABSOLUTELY part of the deal. Also if you are a man who does not have enough courtesy or courage to finish a meeting or date and makes some lame excuse or just disappears DO NOT CONTACT ME - rudeness is inexcusable ! I do not date Married men either and Of course scammers don't even try -I have been hit on by way too many - I know the signs so please be Real !
Would Love to find a man who gets me- who is driven to Persue his area of achievement with passion and is funny - smart - openly alive and can talk about almost anything without drama or personal issues and likes to go out to social events and vacations with me. If you are that kind of a man - please contact me .