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Hopeful_Blonde

41 / F / Straight / Single

Auckland, New Zealand

Her Details

Last Online
May 22
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
High school
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Firstly, let me say that ultimately I am seeking a Relationship. I am looking for someone in whom I can invest, and in return have invested in me, time, mind, body and eventually heart. I wish to date with the longer term view of a monogamous and committed relationship.
I am NOT seeking a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits ( I have lots of friends and 2 perfectly capable hands ).
So, to all you men out there who are not seeking similar....I am sure you are a nice guy but you are simply not the guy for me so PLEASE refrain from messaging me with a view to meet, as I do not want to compromise my precious time, energy and self respect.

I am a 40 yr old sole charge home executive, with 2 grown boys aged 20 and 18. I work as a teacher aide with special needs kids and in out of school care. On weekends am a jeans and t type girl, and am only a lady when occasions call for it (like meeting mums). I dont have a lot of hobbies I just enjoy the company of good people including myself. I am a little rough around the edges, however I am extremely affectionate, caring, loyal, have a very bubbly personality, fairly easy going and fairly attractive!

I gave up smoking about 2 yrs back and unfortunately did gain weight, however I have learnt to see the positives..... Firstly I feel much healthier and secondly my boobs are enormous So anywhoooo if your looking to meet some teeny tiny size 10 stick figure then I suggest you think twice about investing ur time or energy in conversing with me in the hope of a face to face, because clearly you will just end up disappointed! But if your okay with a fuller figured, with larger than life personality chick being in your presence then converse away
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I am focusing on my boys and my work but find myself missing having that ONE special someone to share some of my time with!
I’m really good at
My work, being a friend, supporting people, reading, conversing, massages ....... and occasionally pissing people off :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and my bubbly personality
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am generally an all rounder with most things. However I am not a big fan of horror, classical music, or seafood :)
The six things I could never do without
My boys, my family, my friends, my car, my phone, and my-sky lol
On a typical Friday night I am
Either out or in with my friends or my boys! I am loving being at the stage of life where I can get out with my boys and enjoy their company as much as I do my friends!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a 'know me before you judge me' condition which is well managed and mostly not even noticeable to others!
But as the adage suggests you should ....'Try before you buy' ooops I mean 'Know me before you judge me!' :-)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are 35-45, Single, employed, with a good head and who knows what he wants and is not afraid to put in effort to get it!