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Hopehavoc

21 / F / gay / Available

Riverside, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Sign_Language (Okay)

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I am Bellatrix, Tonks, and Hermione all in one.

My Self-Summary

I'm not the best at self summaries but here are a few things about me.

I'm a college student.

I'm a lesbian.

My house is turning into a zoo. I have 1 snake, 2 cats, 2 mice and 4 rats. This is not even counting the mice that I keep for the snake. I only counted the actual pets.

I just finished building a 7 level rat cage with my bare hands and it made me feel a ridiculous sense of accomplishment.

I go to school full time.

I have a great sense of humor, unless I'm really upset about something I can find humor in just about anything. In fact, one thing some people have noticed about me (usually Doctors and Nurses) is that when ever I'm in the hospital for an emergency (happens quite a lot actually...I'm clumsy as all hell) I am completely inappropriate, cracking jokes and such.

I'm a bit on the stubborn side, the type of person who will start going slower if you honk at me or rev your engine at me or flash me your high beams for not going fast enough. But, I'm also a conscientious person, the kind who will stand right in front of an oncoming car to keep them from cutting off that old man who's trying to cross to the other side of the sidewalk.

I love Harry Potter. To the point of cosplay. I cosplay Bella because she's my favorite character and it doesn't hurt that I have the sort've Bella look already with my long curly brown hair. And, lemme just say, any excuse to wear neon green plaid skinny jeans and knee high boots.

I'm new to the concept of practicing polyamory, having always assumed that it wasn't for me, but now realizing that it is. I always just assumed that I'd be an unrepentant serial monogamist bouncing from person to person, but after having experienced the joys of a triadic relationship, however briefly, I know that I can see myself settling down with two someones long term.

That is to say, I don't want to be in an open relationship where I have a primary partner and we both see other people as well. I want to be in an exclusive threesome relationship where the three of us are together and only date one another. So far, it's not easy finding another person who is okay with that kind of relationship but I am keeping my eyes out.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm working on graduating UC Riverside with a degree in philosophy.

Also, I recently came to the realization that I've actually always been drawn to law enforcement so I'm figuring out what I need to do in order to become a bad ass FBI agent or Detective or something along those lines. I'm thinking, after college, I'll try to get a job as a cop.

I’m really good at

grammar. I'm a stickler for grammar. My nickname in high school was "teacher" and "the grammar police."

I can draw. I'm no Michelangelo but I've made some pretty nice designs. I've drawn up tattoos, logos, original cartoon characters, dress designs, bikini designs (I made this basket of fruit design were the strap was a banana).

I can sing. I'm no American Idol winner but, as one of my friend's said "You'd definitely make it into the top 10"

I can act. Like play/movie acting. I got A's in all my drama/acting classes.

Arguing. Or, more appropriately, debating. I'm really good at convincing other people that my point of view is the right one. I try to limit it to things where I know that I'm right though. Like, the proper way to pronounce the world "nuclear".

I'm good at other stuff too but you'll just have to get to know me to find out. ;)

The first things people usually notice about me

Well, guys usually notice my chest. (Yeah, there's a surprise) I'm not sure what girls notice. Maybe my smile? One of my friends said that I have "really awesome expressions and an engaging smile" so...maybe that.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

AUTHORS:
Stephen King, Dean R. Koontz, Tami Hoag, JK Rowling too many others to mention.

MOVIES:
"The Lost Boys", "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun", "But, I'm A Cheerleader", "D.E.B.S"

MUSIC:
Rammstein, Three Days Grace, She Wants Revenge, Nickelback, AceK, Chaotica, Katy Perry (oh, how I love and loathe her music), K's Choice, Reliant K...wow...I guess I just like a lot of "kuh" sounds

FOOD:
Sushi, Tuna, Pizza (not stuffed crust, I hate stuffed crust), Ramen Noodles...

The six things I could never do without

In no particular order and obviously barring that which is necessary for survival:

my computer

my pets

sexual stimulation

intellectual stimulation

Access to artistic expression and experience (music, movies, games, books, etc)

Some kind of intimate relationship (be it friendship or more)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Lately...I've spent a lot of time thinking about how rude it is for people on dating sites to not reply to someone who has written them a message. I think it's very rude to just not write something back to someone who's taken the time to write you. Even if you don't want to date them, the courtesy of a "I'm sorry but you're not really my type" isn't much considering they mustered up the courage to message you in the first place. To be ignored is one of the worst things one person can do to an other in my opinion. Having said that, I don't ignore the messages that people send me. I respond on principle. I think it's only right.

On a typical Friday night I am

playing video games, watching a movie, going home to visit my parents, something along those lines. The only people that I really hang out with moved to England for the school year.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm omnisexual. (They didn't have a ticky box for that. Just gay, straight or bi)

You should message me if

You're interested in entering a triadic relationship with me and my girlfriend.

Or...if you just want to be friends. That works too. I could always use another friend.