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Hotbandblonde

21 / F / straight / Seeing someone

Sussex, New Jersey

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Slovak (Poorly)

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I am mercurial, eccentric, and musical.

My Self-Summary

The main point of my life is music. I am a complete band geek and i love doing anything that involves that. Friends mean the world to me, and i love them all.

I tend to be one confusing oxymoron..if that makes an sense at all... im a huge nerd, but i dont look it; i'm extremely out-going, but im terribly shy; im a suductress, but im an awkward little girl at heart. see what i mean?

i try to lead my life by my emotions, but my pragmatic side always takes over in the last instant and then im upset with myself for not doing what i want because im too damn persuasive. And that all stems from the fact that im a voracious reader and i love to submerge myself into different worlds.

What I’m doing with my life

persuing my dream of becoming a band teacher and musician, pondering the meaning of life, working endlessly on my goals, trying to break from my disgusting habit of not doing what i want in life, trying to become a better person, and healing my shattered heart :)

I’m really good at

Band, and teaching, and persuasion, and debating, and BSing and reading, and talking, and sex, and flipping my hair, and singing, and did i mention band?, and laughing, and, acting, and pondering, and wasting time, and loving

The first things people usually notice about me

That nothing about me is small, so they usually see my hair(which is quite scarey), and my tall stature and the simple fact that im quite a woman ;P

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My favorite book is Rhapsody by Elizabeth Hayden, and i love romantic comedies and musicals. And as for music...i love and listen to it all!

The six things I could never do without

1. Billy
2. Band
3. The terrible two's
4. my phone
5. my hair
6. lip stick

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what the future holds, the universe, how i feel, music, my past (although i try to avoid that as much as possible), school, maybe ill let myself do what i want :D, band, myself, my friends, and then anything else im forced to think about.

On a typical Friday night I am

with billy..or (on a rare occasion) working or doing something school related

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

im scared to get myself out there, but once we're on that comfortable basis, im quite a rambuncious soul.

You should message me if

you like music, you like blondes, you treat women well, you like to have fun, the first thing you say to me isnt something that would make hugh hefner blush *scowl*, you just want to meet someone who is fun, caring, and will stick by you forever..or untill you just want her to leave :)