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26 Goleta, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly kosher
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it matters a lot
Working on Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Sanskrit (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What I am looking for: Some one compassionate and honest, for whom traveling the world is a must. Someone who laughs freely and isn't afraid to be silly or weird. Someone comfortable in their own skin and is pursuing what drives them. Someone to come home to and go out with. For whom intimacy and affection, of the physical, sexual and non, are in great demand and supply. Romantic dominant and sexual submissive/fluid. A person who can communicate their needs and desire but also strives to anticipate such in their partner. Active, friendly, driven, honest, sarcastic, compassionate, keeps cool under pressure, responsible and yet not afraid to let their inner child splash in puddles. (Long term: also wants children and loves animals) A śakti to my puruṣa.

About Me: I'm a really chill and honest girl who likes to laugh and settle down to a good book or scary movie. The colorful nail polish, jewelry, perfume, spin in a flowy bohemian skirt, or lace up in a corset and shapely jeans type girl. Dominant but nurturing energy. The tail-wagging puppy that meets you at the door and the kitten that gives you that brush and purr right when you need it.

I can alternate between being outgoing to nesting on the floor or in my bed with my computer. I'm not given to extreme emotions so I'm pretty mellow. The worst thing to me is to take out your anger on another person, hence it something I do not do or tolerate. I'm quick to smile and easily amused.

I'm usually game for something new, especially if it's food ;). I like watching movies, anime or asian dramas, video games and I'm always looking for people to play boardgames with or roam around. I dream of traveling the world some day with my partner at my side.

I like the outdoors and just being outside even if it's just laying in the grass. I love running water and large bodies of water because they calm my fiery spirit. Summer child through and through. Solar powered but nocturnal as hell. Theodicy(theories and problems of evil) and Animals are my passion and interest and my ideal life would be 1/3 spent teaching, 1/3 spent helping rescued animals, and 1/3 traveling the world.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Overall: I'm getting a PhD in Religion with an emphasis on Japan. My plan is to be a Professor of Japanese Religion and Philosophy. However, I am thinking about going back to study Veterinary medicine when I am ABD. I have a love of animals that will not take a backseat.

Currently: Planning to study in Japan next year for an entire year *yikes* or a summer and plotting ways to pay for that. Staying in Chicago until January, getting all the prereqs out the way.

Screaming "I do what I want!" followed closely by "Don't judge me >_>;;"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
procrastinating (But getting shit done well and on time ;) )
Zumba (and DDR!!)
jigsaw puzzles,
other kinds of puzzles,
making you laugh by being myself,
giving advice,
being a nerd =^_^=
staying cool under pressure (with the occasional whine).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My butt.... which is really awkward (that it's noticed though butts are pretty weird too i guess). Personality wise.....that I'm weird and like it.

And when I actually asked people the responses were:
1. That I'm black (in Santa Barbara, this is noteworthy :p)
2. That I'm hilarious
3. That I'm observant
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh my I dont know if there is enough space to actually list it...
Books: Mostly fiction and philosophy with some manga and erotica thrown in there for spice. Favorite Authors: Ayn Rand, Jacqueline Carey, Anne Bishop, Anne Rice, Hegel, Hume, Nietzsche, lots lots more.

Music: Mostly rock and techno-like music, but a little of everything, ex. Breaking Benjamin, Shinedown, 30 Sec to Mars, Adele, Nicki Minaj, Mika, Florence + the machine, David Guetta, Jessie Ware, Radio Stuff, and prolly a little of whatever you can think of.

Shows: Dexter, Elementary, Grimm, cooking shows, shipping wars, discovery channel, Star Trek, X-Files, K-Dramas, Anime, Gotham, Scorpion, whatever is free on Amazon and Netflix :P

Movies: I like watching horror/thriller even though they don't scare me. Action and fantasy are also good picks though I will watch almost anything. Comedies are a hit or miss for me.

Food: Rice, Sushi, Pizza, Asian food in general, Spicy food, Taco Bell ^_^(guilty pleasure), Indian food, smoothies, Milk...lots of Milk and Cereal, lord how could I forget the cereal. *Happy Place*
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
people I care about
phone (I like to stay in touch)
a comforter (it's always cold for some reason)
pizza<---results of previous test is a staple of life...along with milk and indian food
asian dramas/anime/boys love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether and why people find me intimidating and dom-like when I'm really a goof who wants to cuddle....

life, sleep, school, love, boys love, whether I should be doing something more productive, how I really want one of those rotating hamster wheel type things from Cirque du Soleil in my house....

"Will you never be my lover or my valentine, never be a friend of mine, never see my better side...."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
watching movies and eating pizza, writing boyslove...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am technically bi-sexual but am more into women than men ^_^

That I'm most depressed about losing the 'more geeky' rating on my personality rating....again T~T
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Any of these apply:

-You fulfill most if not all of the "What I am looking for" above.
-You are into scary movies and will watch them with me, legit.
-You're into Lolita or Japanese culture, etc.
-You're brave ;)
-You show you read my profile and give me something to respond to besides salutations and empty flattery.

"Please, don't be so terrified. Please, don't be so shy
Will you be mine?" -Valentine(cover by Pentatonix)