I think art and books and music are 'the way' but I love it when people can tell me how things work. Like, properly, factually.
I'm interested in people who are interested and interesting; people who are geeks about something/anything are way more fun then people who don't care enough about anything to get involved in it.
I keep fit cos it makes me feel good, mentally and physically; I walk, I do yoga, I climb trees and swing on swings, I jump off things and fall off things, it's fun. I would join a team but I'm pretty sure I'd be kicked off immediately due to my stunning lack of coordination.
I have two kids who I share week-about with my ex. I'm not interested in involving them in my personal life - I'd like to keep the two separate as much as I can.