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30 M Portland, ME

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
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My self-summary
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life for me is about full-time creation. making music, drawing and making tools and beautiful oddities from steel. most of my life from age 17 to age 27 was spent in intense self-reflection and exploration (through traveling physically and mentally), the past 3 years have turned more and more to doing and away from pondering. i consider myself queer and open to all gendered partners, but i find scant folks using such nametags to whom i can relate. don't spend much time thinking on the identity politics or sexuality concepts 'du jour' any more because in my experience it overwhelmingly boils down to hearing, understanding and respecting those you care about, whatever label they choose to use. i don't find similarity of sexual preference to be a valid basis for friendship or even association, jackasses and pretenders come in all forms wearing all clothes, labels and disguises!
to me it's really about what you do with who you say you are (reality is a consensual phenomenon, after all), not how you 'appear' to others.
What I’m doing with my life
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making learning building
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
doing what i love to do.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are only the beginning.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Boox: WS Burroughs, John Holt, stuff about the history of the superpowers destroying the world and manipulating perception, most good Sci-Fi (Asimov, Gibson, Huxley, Orwell, Stephenson, Heinline, Niven, Julian May), books about sound-science (Maconie, Toop, MIT press ztuff), Pynchon, Italo Calvino, Saramango, Tolkien, Vonnegut. and someone just reminded me, the ethical slut.

Muzic: Grails, Blut Aus Nord, Dolovotre, Arizmenda, Volahn, Slayer, Megadeth, Joanna Newsom, Squarepusher, Immortal, Mr. Lif, Blackalicious, Deltron, Weakling, Krallice, Watain, Revenge, Lightning Bolt, Yob, Dispirit, Led Zeppelin, Kate Bush, Dead Can Dance, Cocteau Twins, Alice in Chains, Throbbing Gristle, LAIBACH, Morbid Angel, Enslaved, Horna, The Protomen, Bob Dylan, Leonard Cohen, Flower Travelin' Band, Yes, Rush, Opeth, MosDef/Black Star, Turbonegro, Darkthrone, Burzum, Thayer Cabin, Death, eyedunnooo a lot more...

TV: Battlestar Galactica, Breaking Bad, Deadwood, Dragonball, Simpsons, Invader Zim, Trigun, Cowboy Bebop, game of thrones, ufc, attack on titan
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Exercise, silence of the Earth, music, making pictures and words, food, water.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, food, hiking, adventures, iron work, drawing and coffee. And magic. Fucking magic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Could be.
You should message me if
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It's summer let's party go swimming eat ice cream play tag throw stuff scream sparklers moxie fest blue twilight wood shadow firefly backflips!