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39 South Bend, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 7
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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Honest, stable, loyal, deep thinking, logical, good person who expects respect, but knows that is a two way street.

I am a very easy going guy. Likes to laugh, and to get others to laugh.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living I guess. I know it said not to over-think this one, but I don't always take direction well.

Life... What is this life of ours? It is struggle. It is joy. It is beauty, and simple. Yet it can also be so complicated and warped. There are so many adjectives that can be used accurately to describe it.

But there is one adjective that stands out to me, that cannot be used to describe life. Like it or not, life is never "FAIR." Now that is not me, complaining about my experiences. In fact I consider myself one of the fortunate ones. I just don't believe that is because I earned it. Fortune comes to those whether they deserve it or not, and just as mysteriously mis-fortune happens to people every day that absolutely do not deserve it.

I believe this to be one of the greatest truths of this world; that life is simply not fair. And I would tell anyone asking me for general advice about life. The sooner we accept this reality, the easier it is to navigate this world, and cherish the good that is all around.

So what am I doing with my life; well what is life? It is everything! I could try to summarize it, but that wouldn't be justice. Not that it is exciting or glamorous. If I spelled it out here, it may sound like quite the opposite. But I still think its pretty good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking outside the box
Not OK Cupid, evidently.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess you'll know if you meet me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like movies that make you think. Movies like Memento, Inception, Fight Club, Donny Darko, and the Village. I also like action movies and comedies.

I like the tv series Dexter, Sons of Anarchy, the Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Lost, Weeds. I really only watch series if they are on Netflix.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sorry, decided my answers weren't working for me anymore...
So they got deleted. Personally, I am not real fond of this question. So what do you think of that?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The big questions...
What is the meaning of life, and how to obtain happiness.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Visiting my sister and her family, or my parents. Or maybe even something less interesting. Some Fridays I do basically nothing.
Maybe celebrate making it through another week with a hard cider.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really dont think I keep that much private. Pretty much if you ask me a direct question, I will tell you anything about me. Not that I am making you a challenge...
You should message me if
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If you want to...
If you have already taken the time to read this far...
I am pretty easy going, really. I am up for whatever you want to talk about.