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HowToDream

29 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:20pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Used up
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Student
Income
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Fuck it. I'm not conventional. My father is Nietzsche and my mother is San Francisco. I'm a self-proclaimed cinephile. Sleep is boring. I'm an optimistic romantic at heart but grounded in the twists and turns of reality. I'm too spontaneous for my own good. As much as I can, I do what I say and would expect the same. More expectations = more disappointments. I kinda spell like the British. I'm far more of a spectacle in person than on paper. Pogonophile. I'm always willing to share what I have. Existence is a lie; change is real. I don't slut-shame. I treasure the people that are mad to Live no matter the trivial costs; everyone else is merely 'they'. Vanilla is my least favourite flavour. ;) Community-based queer culture over baseless, privatised gay subculture. The best way to get to know someone is going on an adventure together. While I understand the modern necessity of money, it is not a value of mine. I wish open-mindedness was an American value instead of fear. I'm infamous for my alpha tendencies but unusually mutual. Rather unkempt and natural than pretty artifice. I'm an open book complete with annotations and amendments: ask me anything at all. Cats + cheese = Life. The unknown is far more interesting than comfort and security: rather forage for truffles than slop out of a trough. Irreverence, vulgarity, and candour: get into it. Don't let's get education, intelligence, and intellectualism confused. Ambivalence is nihilism. I love camping. Amor fati. Primary introvert but top-shelf extrovert. Sometimes I babble a lot (evidently); sometimes I can shut the fuck up. Rock 'n' roll.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it and becoming who I am: Apollonian but find Dionysian more interesting...

'I like fuckin', suckin', druggin' & truckin'. My interests are electronic drug dealers, abortions, sex slavery, shitty panties and killing you' ... oh, I mean ... jk!
I’m really good at
...whatever I put my mind to.

I'm really bad at being in photos... :O
The first things people usually notice about me
...the weird face that I'm giving them? No idea and don't care. :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books/Authors: Nietzsche (Twilight of the Idols, The Anti-Christ, Beyond Good and Evil); Hemingway (The Sun Also Rises, A Moveable Feast, Green Hills of Africa); Kerouac (On the Road, Big Sur); Wojnarowicz (Close to the Knives); Huxley (Brave New World); Jean Genet (Querelle); Bret Easton Ellis (The Rules of Attraction, American Psycho, Less Than Zero); Joseph Conrad (Heart of Darkness); Joyce (Ulysses); Dostoyevsky (Notes from Underground, Brothers Karamazov); Orwell (Animal Farm, Nineteen Eighty-Four); Calvin and Hobbes; The Art of War; Guns, Germs, and Steel; etc...

Film/Movies (my religion and raison d'être):
1. Hiroshima Mon Amour, Resnais, 1959
2. L'Eclisse, Antonioni, 1962
3. The Dreamers, Bertolucci, 2003
4. I Am Love, Guadagnino, 2009
5. Pierrot le Fou, Godard, 1965
6. La Haine, Kassovitz, 1995
7. Seven Samurai, Kurosawa, 1954
8. The Leopard, Visconti, 1963
9. Rebel Without a Cause, Ray, 1955
10. Mulholland Drive, Lynch, 2001
11. The River, Renoir, 1951
12. The Red Shoes, Powell & Pressburger, 1948
Then...
...a myriad of anything from Amélie to I Heart Huckabees; Sword of Doom to Volver; Casablanca to Risky Business; Jules et Jim to Mean Girls; Antichrist to Priscilla Queen of the Desert; Zabriskie Point to Enter the Void; Ali: Fear Eats the Soul to Gosford Park; Rear Window to WALL-E; Y Tu Mamá También to The Bubble; Elephant to Star Wars; Hail the New Puritan to Dogtooth; Chinatown to Kill Bill; and There Will Be Blood to Starrbooty. I will rant about the cinema...

Music: Patrick Cowley, AIR, Massive Attack(!!!), Zero 7, Róisín Murphy, Goldfrapp, Stravinsky, Neon Indian, Nite Jewel, Fever Ray, Giorgio Moroder, Fleetwood Mac (and Stevie!), Lemon Jelly, Twin Sister, Vive la Fête, Crystal Castles, Gary Numan, Trust, Kraftwerk, Kate Bush, Little Boots, Queen, The Beatles, The Doors, Fiona Apple, John Adams, Indian music, Israeli/Middle Eastern music (Ofra Haza and Bryn Jones!), Really faggy Disco, 80s music!, I generally HATE most 90s pop music, but love... Kylie Minogue! I'm a strange person...

If I've time to waste, I'll get into TV shows; otherwise, I don't bother...

Food: Oh God! There isn't much I don't like...
The six things I could never do without
My five senses and my cock - enough said. (this is assuming that having a developed brain and the necessary resources [i.e. water, oxygen, food, etc.] to fully experience my senses goes without question...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
White privilege. My films. Bottoms. Gentrification in relation to urban dynamism. Feminism. Piggy bottoms. Spirituality vs. organised religion. The AIDS Crisis' impact on queer/gay culture. The false modern dichotomy of rationality over instinct. Bottoms. Non-elitist art. CHAOS! Hairy bottoms. Relationships of all kinds and how to go about them. Homophobia, racism, and pozphobia within queer/gay thought. Cats. Bottoms. Cheese. How a sudden allergy to cats and cheese would be Red Level: Al Qaeda suicide watch. Bottoms. Bottoms. And more bottoms. Don't look at me like that. ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Ask me again sometime...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This might not be relevant, but just in case you didn't get the memo: I'm a total (dom) TOP ;8)
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
This is how it works: For dating, I'm looking for my muse; a source of creative and intellectual inspiration; an embodiment of adventure and spontaneity; an affirmation of life; and a kinky lil faggot I can hold down and fuck for hours on end.

For everyone else: I want to meet people and artists that want to build an urban community that values a queer culture (as opposed to a gay subculture) or, at the very least, would like to discuss what that means. I realise I probably sound like a cunt writing so much about myself or listing what I enjoy so thoroughly, but that's to provide a plethora of conversation starters and to avoid the meager 'hi' in the initial message... ;)

*Note: I'm not one for being passive-aggressive: People can say whatever they want; are you a person that *does* or merely *says*? The only constant is change; are you a person that cowers at hardships or adapts to them? Are you a person that understands rationality is the mother of all delusion? Are you a person that looks away or lends a hand? Are you a product of becoming who you are or a product of innocuous, degenerative social constructs? What are you doing here?