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Howieyoudoing

55 / M / Straight / Single

Epsom, United Kingdom

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:57pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
While I have had a year of good work and progress it's now time to think about the future. I'm always ready to try something new and filling in this profile is a first for me. Normally I'd be cautious telling people about myself as I don't like attention but if you don't tell then how will people know - that's my logic anyway. Hopefully you'll be curious. I'd describe myself as a steady, dependable person with an extra keen sense of humour (I mean take a look at my photos) which means I can see light in most things but know when it's not required too.. I suppose I am quite a romantic but not in a hopeless sense. I get pleasure from the simple things but can do complex too - generally happy to try new things in all matters. I want to have fun although it doesn't have to be every minute of the day as I'm realistic enough to know that we all need to live life and that unfortunately, means the everyday bits too. I've read a few profiles where I think some people may have been a bit over stated to make them sound more interesting or attractive - some seem to be on a non stop cultural and social whirl. Well if that's the case then well done but I'm still trying to get there - wherever there is of course! Thanks for reading and do send a message if you'd like to know more. I'll even believe myself.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I'm working and have not really made time for me and for someone special. I want to change this and find someone with who we can make times special.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh and caring for people. I usually sense how people are feeling and have a good knack of dispensing tissues and shoulders when needed. I'm generally well-organised and don't usually attract chaos but don't control and can do impulsive when least expected. A curious package - but I suppose nicely wrapped!
The first things people usually notice about me
Possibly the eyes - which are brown.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favourite book is the A to Z of London.. its' true. I do read a lot but a favourite other book I'm not sure as I'm in and out of styles and genres. I do like comedies and old black and white B films of the 50s and 60s - have recently developed a fad for gritty westerns but not sure what that's about - no stetson or saddle either. I'm very keen on music and i'm mainly into 60s and 70s rock and blues and pop - I can give a list if needed! Not overly keen (or more truthfully know much about) on today's styles or dance music - ah, now dancing - not really me but will have a go if encouraged correctly. Food is essentially anything and everything but one or two exceptions.
The six things I could never do without
My hopes
My humour
My health
My music
My books
My wishes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That's it's all going to come good and that out there somewhere is someone for me... it'll be worth waiting for is my belief.
Also I think a lot about getting on with life and not waiting for the right time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually at home looking forward to the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll leave you to find that out! I can offer a range!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you like someone who is honest, trustworthy and straightforward. I'm someone who tries to understand what's going on around him and if you can live with out me going to clubs, posing or having to impress all the time then I'd love to hear from you. If you want to know what else makes me tick a message might get you some more insights. Or you could simply say, "you know what, I'll give him a chance...bless him for trying"