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28 M Providence, RI

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:52am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly), French (Fluently), Dutch (Okay)

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My self-summary
I grew up all-over, traveling through Europe and the Middle East, and as a result spellcheckers are constantly berating me for my inappropriate addition of the letter 'U', despite my strong sentiment that it adds verve and colour to otherwise bland sentences.

Nominally a New Yorker, I've just moved to Providence for work and I'm trying to get a handle on its character.

If you don't enjoy talking about politics, we probably won't get along. I've got a thing for Social Justice.

I'm a little suspicious of people whom OKCupid tells me are 0% my enemy. I have a long history of making enemies, and it worries me that I might be trying too hard.

I am constantly ridiculous and often accused of taking myself too seriously.

I like to think I have the ability to be tactfully blunt, but I may only be half right about that.

I say whatsitcalled a lot.
I’m really good at
Cutting to the Quick
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I like to read. A lot. On a variety of topics. I find few things sexier than good writing (I am a little gay for David Rakoff, RIP). But I fall for the trash like everybody else.

Movies: Any and All -- although I've always seen myself as a Sam Spade archetype, and have a soft spot for anything remotely approaching film noir.

Music: Nowadays, I Spotify - relying on my friends to inform me about music and I have long given up my Pitchfork days. A strong female vocalist is great (Wye Oak). Anything that's appropriate for listening to in a darkened room, glass of scotch in-hand goes over big. (Iron & Wine, Elliot Smith) Or if it makes me feel like I'm in a Guy Ritchie film (Massive Attack). As long as the song's got a soul, its more or less hard to go wrong -- and I find myself far too attracted to off-the-beat cover-songs (ever hear Jennifer Connelly's rendition of the Night has a Thousand Eyes?)

Food: I will never be a vegetarian. Sorry.
The six things I could never do without
People Smarter than Me.
Plans for World Domination.
A Cause.
An Escape Plan.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Philosophy - the what's and if's of the big picture. Occasionally even the what-if's. A big part of this is Social Justice.

How I would fare in a post-apocalyptic world.
On a typical Friday night I am
In a dive/hipster bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wear my personality on my sleeve. If you want to know something about me, ask and you shall receive.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–31
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you enjoy playing jenga over a good meal and few drinks with friends.