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59 Alpena, MI Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 51-62
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 2:52am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have lived many places across the US, and also in Germany. I live in a rural area but actually prefer to be in the city. Consequently I travel quite a bit. I am the first generation in my family to attend, and graduate from, college. I have the world view of a liberal arts college grad and also come from a working class background. My feet are in two different social worlds and my head is a skeptical observer of both. Perspective and Relativity are what I am all about. Materialism and pretension are my antitheses.

I need someone to share caring, trust, sincerity, love, and lots of fun and great intellectual conversations.

I am in pretty good health and enjoy getting out and doing things. Live music and theater and travel!

I am liberal, agnostic, and intellectually creative. We would not be a good match if you are the opposite of those traits.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am enjoying this time in my life. I enjoy the work that I do a great deal and also am looking forward to retirement in a few years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem solving
Fixing things
Appreciating new and different things and experiences
Analysis and seeing through to the meaning
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am quiet at first. I have variable blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Avant garde: Harold Budd, Bill Laswell, Hauschka, Erik Friedlander, Steve Reich....
Blues: Charlie Musselwhite, Leadbelly, BB King, Junior Wells, Robert Johnson, Chris Thomas King, Muddy Waters...
Classical: Mozart, Philip Glass, John Cage,Tchaikovsky, Stravinsky, Mahler, Grieg, Schoenberg, Alban Berg, Prokofiev, Weill, Stockhausen, Penderecki...
Electronic: Chemical Brothers, Underworld, Moby, Prodigy, Massive Atttack, Autechre, Oakenfold, Boards of Canada, Bjork, Plastikman, Paul van Dyk, BT, Pole...
Pop/Rock: Pearl Jam, Radiohead, Nirvana, RATM, Pumpkins, Sinead O'Connor, Sigur Ros, Santigold, Everything but the Girl, Jewel, Alanis Morrisette, Cranberries, White Stripes, Mogwai, Filter, NIN, VNV Nation, The Clash, Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Springsteen, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Bad Religion, Bob Marley, Peter Tosh, Streisand, Billie Holiday, Dead can Dance, Hocico, Tull, Bonamassa, Sonny Boy Williamson, Zoe Keating,, name a few.
Anything at the Traverse City Film Festival. So so many...
Theater is almost always good.
Mexican, Thai, Chinese, Italian, Indian, middle eastern, burgers, vegetarian, German.
Books: I prefer poetry and quotations to novels. I buy novels/books occasionally but usually do not read them. I like to vote with book purchases. I read extensively online.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Information, fresh air, the arts, humanity, family, inspiration
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When will humans live up to our potential. Life, the universe, and everything and how it's all connected.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out to dinner and some event such as a film.