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34 Carlsbad, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 3
Asian, White
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm The Men's Coach. I help high performing men master their relationships with their women and the world.

And I'm on a mission to make the world a better place one man at a time. (
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Helping men step up, unapologetically putting my art out into the world, spending as much time in my body possible, and living life one fabulous day at a time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking my truth, living on purpose, breathing deeply, making eye contact, being totally present, coaching, teaching, public speaking, helping others reach their full potential, living out of a suitcase, writing, eating healthy, cooking, giving massages, dancing my ass off, and making every day the best day of my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a great listener, I have a huge heart, and I have a calming personality.

And I defy all Asian stereotypes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love books! Some of my favorites are: The Way of the Superior Man, The Alchemist, Loving What Is, The Power of Now, The Celestine Prophecy, The War of Art, Turning Pro, Into The Wild, Born To Run, The Last Lecture, Ishmael, The Art of Non-Conformity, The Millionaire Fastlane & The Education of Millionaires.

It sounds generic, but I love all music and can appreciate all of it. Lately it's been a lot of Explosions In The Sky, The Human Experience, 90's Hip Hop, and whatever's on Songza (best app ever by the way).

I don't watch television. I read, listen to podcasts, or on occasion I'll hit up my girlfriend's Netflix account and watch a documentary.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Creative Expression
Deep Conversations
Physical Touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, purpose, love, health, creative expression, new business ideas, and how to make the biggest impact in the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing about me is typical. Especially my Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is that I'm still scared of a lot of things, but I push through knowing that what I'm scared of is what I should be doing.
You should message me if
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You light up the room with your radiant feminine presence, beauty, and energy.

You are committed to authenticity, openness, and living life with an open heart.

You are positive, healthy, and committed to growth.

You watch little or no television and you value experiences over material possessions.

You love to laugh. You love to dance. You love to love.

You enjoy long discussions about entrepreneurship, sexuality, positive psychology, making the world a better place, and doing stuff that scares you.


PS - I'm currently in an amazing monogamous partnership, but I'm always open to meeting extraordinary human beings who have similar values as I do.