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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 29
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
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I don't want to toot my own horn, but beep beep: I'm hilarious. I'm also sweet, sincere, and smart.

I'm a historian at heart, a philosopher by training, and a librarian by trade. I'm also a secret scientist that generally avoids conflating science with pseudo-sciences (like library science).
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm settling in at a new job. Going to film festivals like Sundance and the Cat Vid festival. That's not all the cat entertainment on my resume. I also went to the Circus Cat show. That concludes the list of cat entertainment.

I ran a 5k semi-recently, but that's not typical for me. I did it for a friend. I'm a really good friend. Which is not to say I am out of shape. I like to watch my shape lest I become misshapen.

Petting pets.

Sometimes I climb trees, into buildings. Then I steal all their magazines.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh while they're trying to exercise. Canasta. Reading your mind.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am made of skin and hair. I like hats.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like books that reference World's Fairs: Against the Day and Devil in the White City are a couple of favorites. Breakin' 2: Electric Boogaloo is kind of my favorite movie, but really, any movie where people dance to save a youth center is bound to be fantastic. EDIT: Breakin' 2 is no longer my favorite movie because it's seriously awful and doesn't even have a young JCVD* like the original to balance out the terrible with ridiculousness. My new favorite film is Milo and Otis.

* JCVD = Jean Claude Van Damme

I like musicians named Bill (Callahan, Oldham, Williams), Steve (Malkmus, Merritt), Philip (Elvrum), and Louis (Barlow). I also like musicians that faked their own deaths (Elliott Smith and Jeff Buckley). One of the musicians above is a persona I adopted for a few years whenever I was recording music. I killed him off at some point, but no worries, the memorial service was quite lovely.

I am adding a paragraph about TV. I like Better Call Saul, Louis, Arrested Development, Fishing with John, Twin Peaks, True Detective, and Breaking Bad.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My fake dog
The moon
Writing songs and stories
Fast horses
Good design
Slow dancing with you on a fast horse under the moon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I need a curio for my tchotchkes
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Brushing your hair... Right?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I solved a murder. I didn't cause the murder.

I'm GGG.

Also I'm not arrogant and I'm super playful... so the personality tags are a bit balls?
You should message me if
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not the world will end. Badly.