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HuddieLedbetter

23 M Rochelle, IL

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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This is going to be a bit difficult for me, as I'm new to this sort of thing, coupled with the fact that I'm not naturally inclined to write about my personal life. I suppose I should admit straight away that I'm extremely shy, as well as inexperienced in regards to dating and romance. Given those circumstances, I cannot promise to be a dashing prince charming type, but just as well, I do not expect perfection in others either; in the words of Leonard Cohen, "There is a crack in everything - that's how the light gets in." I'm here simply to find genuine people I can relate to, to have "real talk" with, and to just generally have a good time - and perhaps even come to cherish in one another the aspects of ourselves that no one else will accept.

I suppose it's also worth mentioning that I am part Mestizo ("Hispanic" mixed with "Native American" blood), so it is probably prudent to let racists (as well as sexists and homophobes) know that while they are free to believe as they want, I will not respond to messages from them. Actually, scratch that, if you are a racist, sexist, or homophobe, please DO message me and we can have a discussion about it. With that being said, I don't wish to be mistaken for a politically correct, easily offended prude. In fact, nothing could be further from the truth.

As for my interests, it would take an entire book to discuss them all in depth, but I do enjoy learning about music, history, politics, certain areas of science; namely biology, astronomy, neurology, and psychology. Among the numerous people who have influenced me are (in no particular order): Socrates, Buddha, Voltaire, Thomas Jefferson, Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, Karl Marx, Friedrich Engels, Frederick Douglass, Arthur Rimbaud, Virginia Woolf, Martin Luther King, Jr., John Lennon, Kurt Cobain, Bob Dylan, Joan Baez, Bertrand Russell, Carl Sagan, Noam Chomsky, Richard Dawkins, Christopher Hitchens, Sam Harris, Harry Partch and George Carlin. The list is so long that I've obviously overlooked some, haha.

Oh, and I suppose I should add that I do take care of my physical health via exercise and watching what I eat. I guess it really matters to some people lol.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
This must be the part where I talk about how I'm coming along in the "real world"; something I admittedly struggle with as a natural daydreamer. For money, I work in landscaping for all four seasons, and I'm currently working on obtaining a degree in journalism, as I aspire to be the best writer I can be; whenever I must write something, I try to be as descriptive yet concise as possible, so if what you're reading now makes it seem like I'm "trying too hard" to write an amazing profile, your assumptions are correct. :P I will say, though, that I feel I'm a musician at heart (I play guitar, bass, keyboards, drums, and sing, and would like to expand my repertoire of instruments) , and my ultimate life goal is to make wonderful music that will change the way people think about the art form.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can teach you how to bewitch the mind and ensnare the senses; I can tell you how to bottle fame, brew glory, and even put a stopper in death.

Seriously though, I get somewhat embarrassed when asked what I'm good at or what my positive qualities are, but try my best I shall:

I would say I'm a very open minded person and am able to see every side of an argument or conflict. I also seem to have an ability to find a silver lining in even the most seemingly reprehensible people, ideas, and actions.

I take a deep and analytical interest in anything and everything that fascinates me - whether it be music, art, politics, history, the mind, or the lives of the people I'm close to.

I'm a fluent musician and singer. I used to be far more bashful about it - especially my singing - but positive responses from people have led me to believe I really am quite good.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Honestly? My shyness. It's been ubiquitous in my life for so long that it has, to a degree, become inseparable from me as a person.

But once I'm out of the loud social environments and am talking to a person one on one, I start to get more comfortable, and people often tell me (not trying to sound arrogant or boastful here) that I'm actually quite intelligent and insightful, with more depth than I let on.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have a few "favorites" that last forever, but many of them tend to be fleeting and dependent on my interests at the time.

Books

I actually enjoy nonfiction more than fiction, much to the dismay of a lot of people. That's not to say I enjoy no fiction. In particular, I have a soft spot for young adult-oriented novels.

Fiction: Harry Potter series (obligatory) by J.K. Rowling, The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky, The Giver by Lois Lowry, The Outsiders by S.E. Hinton, The Wave by Todd Strasser, To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee, The House of the Scorpion by Nancy Farmer, Nineteen Eighty-Four and Animal Farm by George Orwell, Slapstick ("Lonesome No More") by Kurt Vonnegut.

Nonfiction: The Demon-Haunted World by Carl Sagan, A People's History of the United States by Howard Zinn, The Greatest Show on Earth and The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins, The Interpretation of Dreams by Sigmund Freud, Psychological Types by Carl Jung, The Blank Slate by Stephen Pinker, The Mismeasure of Man by Stephen Jay Gould, Genesis of a Music by Harry Partch, Tragedy and Hope by Carroll Quigley.

Movies

All of the Beatles' films, Harry Potter series, Donnie Darko, the original Star Wars trilogy, The Lady Vanishes, Dracula, Forrest Gump, Stand By Me, Nightmare on Elm Street series, Pink Floyd The Wall, No Direction Home, One Hour Photo, Leadbelly, Kurt Cobain: About a Son, Serial Mom.

Music

I don't want to spend forever listing my favorite artists, so I'll try my best to describe the music I like.

I tend to be drawn toward anything that has a melancholic undertone or indicates struggles, whether it be internal or external. Needless to say, I'm a huge fan of older folk music, anything that reflects sadness or existential crises, and socially conscious hip-hop.

I'm also intrigued by anything that sounds different and defies our standard of "quality" music here in the West, i.e. Daniel Johnston, The Shaggs, Stockhausen, Harry Partch, etc. I'm also interested in music from around the world that does not conform to our Western scales, rhythms, and chord progressions; Indian classical music in particular.

I should also add that I'm a sucker for anything catchy, as well as beautiful melodies/harmonies.

Also, I'm a HUGE fan of The Beatles, Bob Dylan, and Lead Belly. And The Wall by Pink Floyd is the greatest album of all time to me. Always will be.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Seems like the choices here are to make a list of either A) essentials or B) non-essentials. Listing essentials appears pointless and boring, and listing non-essentials appears vain and self-absorbed, so meh.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How many roads a man must walk down before you call him a man.

The art of music; more specifically, how to completely defy people's expectations of "good music" and still come out with a finished product that is stunningly beautiful. I could go on forever about my passion for music, but I'm going to stop there.

Why there is no blue food.

History and politics. While I enjoy political discussions, it's very hard for me to take a side and stick with it, because as I said, I am genuinely able to see every point of view. While most would consider me left wing in a general sense (in the words of Dylan: "I'm liberal, but to a degree, I want everybody to be free"), I dislike the idea of labeling or confining myself to one ideology or viewpoint, as I feel it limits the scope through which I view the world. I believe that, ultimately, Capitalism is Communism is Liberalism is Conservatism is Libertarianism is Feminism is Fascism, etc.; that is, I think every ideology is merely a different means to the same outcome - the perceived betterment of humanity. Every mind is a tiny sliver of humanity's all-seeing eye, which is why I believe that people of all walks of life, ideologies, faiths, etc. must work together in spite of their differences if we are ever to reach our potential as a species.

If there is indeed an afterlife, is it really an "afterlife"? Is it not just life continued?

When it comes to spiritual matters, I don't really get too serious about it. I've had some fairly intense spiritual experiences, but I don't like to jump to conclusions about the concrete, physical world based on experiences of a nonmaterial, abstract nature. While I consider myself agnostic, I am welcoming of folks of all different faiths who are open-minded enough to give a nonbeliever a chance. :)

Which direction my smilies should face. Most people use :), but I kind of like (:.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Robbing gas stations with my homies.

For real though, I'm probably at home, reading, writing, working on music, or browsing the web/chatting with people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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No matter how much knowledge I acquire, I will always be somewhat naive.

I barely know the words to the Star-Spangled Banner, but I know the Soviet National Anthem by heart.

I'm mostly hetero, but not completely. And I'm definitely not cis.
You should message me if
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You find my profile interesting or you find me attractive, I suppose? What an awkward "fill in the blank" lol.