The conclusion finally came, that what I write about myself does eventually become outdated. Part of growing up? More like changing.
The real truth is I don't have anything to say about myself that is unchangeable, so this here profile will not be doing much, except to describe how I think about these things.
I'm not looking for girlfriends or boyfriends. All I like to to do here is to do tests and meet people. I really enjoy being gentle to others, but please don't think you can get anything from me just because I'm like this. Still, most of the time all you have to do to get something from me is to ask nicely.
I changed my interest to girls only 'cause boys here don't reciprocate. But feel free to break this rule.
I finally answered (or skipped) all the questions on OkCupid. So, if you click on my Personality, you'll get a nice close-accurate picture of its attributes, which I think is rather neat.
On the other hand, having seen those attributes change over time, is confirmation to what I said above: that even mathematical accuracy is ephemeral.
There's also the tests, which I have done a lot. You can check those if you like.
I know it may sound stupid, but OkCupid's main test used to tell me I was a loverboy. As I sporadically took that particular test over the last years, I saw it change into a boy next door, and finally into a manchild.
Its veracity is questionable, of course, but it's still something that hurts: to feel downgraded. And even if the result is not deserved, the change in result certainly is.
Once in a while I come back here to do a few of the questions I did years ago, and see if my answer changes. If I meet people while doing so, so much the better.
So yes, by now you may have realized this is less of a dating site for me, and more like a place where I check how I am doing.
And you, how are you doing?