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61 Kapolei, HI Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 50–75
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:47am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a full-bodied woman who loves ocean swimming and snorkeling, working out at the gym, dancing when I can, networking, and sharing passion, intimacy, sensuality, sexuality, and everything that goes along with being open to the right person. Authenticity, communication, kindness, generosity on all levels, and emotional intelligence are some of the greatest aphrodisiacs I know of. The most valuable senses are common sense and a sense of humor.

I want you to know immediately that I have some arthritis and an old ankle injury that never healed properly. I no longer hike or power walk and I avoid stairs; I often use a cane. (If this is a deal breaker, please look elsewhere for someone that you feel would be right for you.) Although I completely enjoy ocean swimming and working out at the gym, I am definitely not athletic. I am overweight, and taking positive action to let it go. I am great in and out of bed; I simply can't get on my knees. My physical challenges do not get in the way of me being a successful professional, a nurturing and caring lover, and a highly functional human being with a strong presence.

I am not for everyone and I have been loved and admired by some wonderful men. If we do not have chemistry, strong friendship is also a blessing. I have made some wonderful friends through a couple of the internet dating sites over the years.

I have been blessed to live in Hawaii since December 25, 1980 -- Maui 1980 to 2002. My late husband and I taught a personal growth seminar in the early 80's, before he became ill. My husband died in May of 2001. My manager had relocated to Oahu and invited me to come over. I needed a change and moved to Oahu in October of 2002. I am grateful every day for the opportunity to call Hawaii my home. At the same time, I am willing to consider relocating if that is what unfolds.

I have a compassionate, empathic, sensitive, passionate, and caring nature. I am always moved by a rainbow, a sunset, the full Moon, a misty rain, children's innocent laughter. I am grateful for every good, beautiful, and kind thing that happens on a daily basis.

My friends would say that I am extremely loving, consistent, reliable, devoted, honest to a fault, transparent, and open to sincere feedback that will help me continue to grow and develop. I am a great listener and have the capacity for being deeply present. People often find themselves opening up to me and sharing things they have never or rarely shared with others. People who meet me say they feel at home in my presence and nurtured by my genuine warmth.

I am a naturist and always am au naturel at home unless it is cold. I have had the opportunity and blessing to spend time naked outdoors at nudist camps and the private property of dear friends. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh. Even though it has not always served me, I usually think with my heart. Life lessons and challenges have taught me to be more cautious than I would like to be.

My life challenges and karma have helped me develop a depth of compassion, understanding, and perspective that allows me to be deeply present with others. I have patience, understanding, and a way of looking at life that is only developed through facing and thriving through the challenges and impermanence of life. I have experienced many personal growth seminars through the years and have strong communication skills, a quality I also value in others. I am more interested in sharing love than being right.

You are a man who has a generous heart, is financially solvent and/or ambitious and focused professionally (or retired), is romantic and old-fashioned mixed in with being flirtatious and naughty, possesses a quick mind, ready laugh, and is open to taking a chance on the possibility of love and magic being in your life. You mean what you say and say what you mean; you follow through on your words and promises with action. You have some type of spiritual foundation and Higher Power in your life. You want to connect based on mutual trust and respect, attraction, and adding positive energy to one another's life. You understand the magic of a kiss well placed. You know what it means to be a true friend and a Tantric lover. (If you have never heard of Tantra, feel free to google it. There is a Universe of Discovery awaiting you.) You are open to experiencing the magic, mystery, and healing of opening to deep union and ecstasy.

Although, as most of us, you have some baggage, your past does not dictate your present. You, like me, have learned from your life lessons and have become a better person as a result. If you are fortunate enough to have children, they would be happy for you to find a beloved in your life.

I think it is important for you to know that I do not like the smell or taste of cologne or strong deodorant. It can actually make me nauseous. I do not use cologne or perfume. There are many natural deodorants on the market that work quite well. Also, I hardly ever wear make-up. I have never enjoyed it, and will consider wearing it for special occasions.. Due to my life long challenges with my feet, I do not wear high heels. These things may seem like not even worth mentioning, and I have known men who were great guys but we were not compatible because of some of these things. I am definitely "Miss Natural." There is nothing better than a person's own natural pheromones after a hot shower.

You can appreciate and value a woman who is a professional, capable, and confident in the world and yearns to be soft, receptive, and sexy in private, with a man she can trust and be herself with. You love to cuddle and linger in bed, before and after sharing sexually. You welcome a woman who is comfortable and open with her sexuality and multi-orgasmic. You are an expert in bed and, even more important, out of it. You appreciate the necessity of keeping romance alive in a relationship and making your woman feel like the Queen of the world (and in return will allow me to make you feel like the King of the world). You have enough self esteem to accept being treated lovingly and consciously, with tenderness, care, and concern. Your only choice in life is to run toward love with open arms and an open heart. You are ready to meet the one you have waited for all of your life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a grief counselor who also helps people with end-of-life planning. I meditate, exercise, get in the ocean, share time with a few friends, belong to two Jewish congregations, practice Buddhism, (I often say I am a BuJew,) act when I have the opportunity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting people at ease as soon as they meet me. Giving acknowledgement freely and accurately. Listening. Loving. Communicating on all levels -- verbally, silently, physically, and psychically. Fundraising for causes I believe in. Dancing whenever I can. Swimming. Working out with weights. Laughing freely and deeply. Hugging and nurturing. Sharing feelings. Sexing and intimacy. Full body orgasms. Giving and receiving oral sex. Sales. Acting -- I had a small part in Lost in 2010 and was a featured principal in Descendants with George Clooney in 2011.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height; my big, generous, warm smile; my soothing voice; my yummy, full body hugs; my ability to be present and share eye contact
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Search Inside Yourself, The Hunger Games, 50 Shades of Grey (Yes, I have read all three volumes. And, although the books are very erotic and sensual, that is not what they are really about. I am happy to discuss this.) Anything by Pema Chodron.New favorite movie of all time is Life of Pi. I rarely see a movie more than once. I could see that many times over. Now, I want to read the book. Next favorite movie of all time is Lion In Winter, with Katherine Hepburn and Peter O'Toole; Dangerous Beauty; Woman on Top; Don Juan DeMarco; The Notebook; Bridges of Madison County; Descendants; What's Eating Gilbert Grape?; Benny & Joon; Departures; Priscilla, Queen of the Desert; Eat, Drink, Man, Woman; Like Water for Chocolate; Shall We Dance? (both versions).

Do not watch TV; do not even own a TV. I do like the show Couch and I used to watch Oprah & Dr. Phil. Varied taste in music. Jazz, R&B, some country, classical, some rock. The Commodores are my favorite group of all time. The Beatles, of course. Lionel Richie. Barbara Streisand. Celine Dion. The 3 Tenors. Pavarotti. Josh Groban.

A Favorite food is avocado; anything Asian. Most ethnic foods. Veggies and fish. Watermelon. Mangoes. Salads. Healthy pizza (Is that an oxymoron?) Organic dark chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Actually, I could exist without any of the following things, except for air and water. Life is meaningful and rich with the following: Ocean swimming, sex, orgasms, intimacy, deep breathing and meditation, close friends, hugging, massage, my cat, Duchess. (I know that is more than six. I am never one to want to limit myself or others.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What love means and the blessing of attracting a mate into my life. What I can do to continue to help make the world a better and safer place. How I can improve myself, heal the tender places, and be the best me I can be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home, gym, dinner with a friend, or at Temple
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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After all is said and done, the thing I want most to experience in my life is a soul mate who means it, who wants to do what it takes to have an amazing and magical relationship, who has mastered communication skills and knows how to kiss.
You should message me if
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You live in Hawaii or are a traveller.
You want to meet face to face.
You are interested in both a physical and cerebral connection.
You love my type -- a full-figured woman who is at home in her own skin and perfectly herself with all her imperfections.
You know how to give and receive love.
If you have children or other close family members, they would be happy for you to have a beloved in your life, and be open to getting to know me.
You possess emotional intelligence and bravery.
You possess healthy eating habits or at least support my healthy eating habits and might be willing to consider improving your food choices.
Like me, you are generous with your time, energy, and resources.
You are a man of action. You love what you just read and you instantly contact me.