Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This may be somewhat misleading and I do not want to mislead
anybody - I am NOT, repeat, NOT looking for a woman for a
one-on-one long term relationship. Friends, OK, but don't expect
sex from me ladies. I am a twice married widowed pansexual male. I
am in a loving relationship with a lady, we have been together for
over nine years. It is a semi-open relationship. I am not seriously
looking for anyone for a long term relationship, but I am willing
to talk to interesting people. Casual sex with a guy is not out of
I am very discrete and expect the same from others.
I am very open to others of contrary views. I'll respect you if you
respect me, simple as that. If you cannot deal with anyone who
thinks differently, you aren't likely to go too far with me. We all
have different thoughts and feelings, and your points are as valid
as mine, and mine are as valid as yours. Some of my best friends
hold very different views from me and we don't let it stop us.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
A little over two years ago I started playing an instrument
(Autoharp) and my life has not been the same. I have done a lot of
work with special needs people, and it is important for me to help
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Things of a mechanical and / or electronic nature. Some people
think I'm good at music, others think I suck. I can agree with
them, because I enjoy performing oral sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very good natured and easy going. Very talkative chatterbox.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am not into TV for the most part, and not really into sports
either, although I can enjoy seeing a game, either in person or on
TV. I spend a lot of time listening to the radio, 99% of the time
I'm listening to WWJ 950 AM. I often listen to music, but there
really isn't any station that plays the variety I like. In my own
car I have music on an SD card I play, songs recorded from
1899-2013. I have a collection of several thousand records,
including about 150 cylinders made from 1903-1925 and a 1907
Columbia Oxford Graphophone I can play them on. My musical tastes
are ecclectic, the best way to put it is you never know what you'll
hear coming out of my speakers...or for that matter, what you'll
hear me trying to play on my Autoharp. Everything from soft
classical to hard core punk rock, electronic and instrumental to
accepella and Sacred Harp / Shapenote, choral...I love music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, sex, music, a loving companion, friends and freedom.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time practicing and playing music, or trying to
think of answers to things that life has thrown at me. And, dare I
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home or listening to music or practicing music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really love to suck cock, and I swallow. I am getting better at
deep throat, but I need more practice, I'm seriously interested in
guys that will let me practice on them.
I'd also really like to try bukkake sometime.
You should message me if
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You are nearby, any of this sounds interesting, and /or you're
interested in sex (particularly oral). If you are a man that would
like a good blowjob without the drama, for example, if you have a
wife / girlfriend that would do anything for you except suck your
dick, write to me, I can take care of you. I do it because I enjoy
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