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  • Ages 18–40
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My details

Last online
Jun 20
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Seeing Someone
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm optimistic, huggy(everyone gets a hug), bored and single, i have many and varied interest's including Karate, Wargames, LARP(ask me if you don't know what this is) and Scouts.
I can get bogged down in the day to day things but i'm always ready get stuck in too something new and different if i think its worth it. I'm active, but not as fit as i should be, despite excercising more than i used too.
I'm living in a shared flat with a friend who works all hours on her PhD!
I'm also a self confessed Sci-fi geek!

I am Huggy, eccentric, and optimistic
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm working in a fancy dress shop, despite a good degree! (Damn the reccession!)
I play in several LARP games on a sunday afternoon/evening and several weekends a year, i help out at a Scout troop in Roundhay on a Monday night and do Karate classes on Tuesday and Thursday nights(i'm up to Yellow belt).
The thing that usually scares people off is the Wargaming (playing with little models on tabletop) which i tend to do on a sunday morning/early afternoon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at not being cynical, hugging people and listening, though i wil ask questions.
I hold to the belief, as stated by Terry Pratchett that a lot of people don't have conversations, they just spend the time while other people are talking thinking what they are going to say next, I tend to listen to whats being said, meaning people sometimes think i'm a bit slow, but its just me mentally digesting the conversation.
I hug people alot, everyone gets a hug, people who like hugs get more than others, but everyone gets at least one!
Most of my friends would consider me innocent/naive, but i'm really not, i just try not suppress my cynisism and be optimistic, this does not mean i'm unrealistic! I just hope for the best case!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The first thing people usually notice is my smile, i'm usually smiling, even when depressed, the second thing is the hug, i try to give warnings before hugging new people, scaring people is not something i want to do these days! ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Terry Pratchett's Diskworld novels, the Sword of Truth series by Terry Goodkind, and the "Song of Ice and Fire" series by George R R Martin. I tend to go for series's with long running plots! I like a good plot!
My favourite movie of probably Fifth Element, but i like alot of other sci-fi movies such as the Back to Future series, and i also like fantasy like Lord of the Rings or Pans Labyrinth or Stardust.
My Music tastes are a bit odd, for preference i listen to classic and 80s Rock and cheese, but i will listen to almost anything thought i try and avoid Hiphop and R'n'B. I greatly enjoy going to The Wendyhouse, which is a club night at stylus which is all Goth/Alternative/80's cheese/Rock!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet! I like keeping up with news and current affairs and the internet is best for this!
Books, when all else fails a good book is great!
Chocolate, because its great to share!
Friends, because its good too talk.
Mobile, so can easily keep in contact with my friends
Facebook, because its easy to use!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stuff! Things i have done, things i should have done, things i am going to try and do!
I also think alot about spaceships!! I dunno why, i just do!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a friday night i am usually home, chatting to friends on the internet or playing games, my usual going out night is saturday night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I listen too Radio 4 in the mornings to wake me up!
You should message me if
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I'd like to chat too people who aren't going to be scared off or dissmisive of my hobbies!
Too many times people meet me but then reject because i'm too much of a geek!