Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Relatively young unit of the human species. Survived 27 winters and
counting. Still under warranty. Lives in the old city center of
Ghent, together with my two wonderful girlfriends. Wait, were you
expecting a normal profile here? Oops, sorry.
I'm... different, probably. And at the same time I can blend in
when needed. But my nature is, and has always been, to be different
from the pack. I also often have views that are very different from
what most of society thinks. Whether that is a good or a bad thing
depends entirely on your taste.
On the relationship level, I'm currently in a poly group with two
girls, to whom I am both a romantic loving affectionate partner as
a strict and demanding Master and life coach. Yup, we're that
whips-and-chains kind of people.
Next to that, we are a warm and open group of people and we would
really like to meet likeminded spirits who could be interested in
this form of relationship and in joining our little family. If this
sounds appealing to you, and if you're up for a new start in your
life, with a very different life style from what you're probably
used to, please do drop us a message!
Everything else you want to know is probably already in the parts
below, but you're always free to ask extra questions, or just send
an email to say hello. Don't worry, I won't bite, or at least not
until you tell me I can. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At daytime, I'm a PhD student at Ghent Unversity, working somewhere
on the boundary of mathematics and computer science, so if 0's and
1's freighten you, this is probably not a good topic to talk about.
At night time, I can typically be found either home having fun with
our little family, sitting behind my computer to read about various
topics (psychology, sexual ethics, evolution theory...), or outside
events or activities
of the local BDSM
student club Kajira (http://kajira.ugent.be
), which I co-founded
some years ago and which has repeatedly hit the news as the first
state-funded BDSM group.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting a deeper understanding of how someone's mind works. For
several of my friends, I am the only person noticing when things
don't go well, and the only one that can get them back up. Or
making them feel less guilty about things society wants us to feel
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well... the first time I saw myself in a mirror is decades ago, so
I really don't remember and I think I may also have changed since
then. But feel free to tell me your first impressions. :)
If I have to pick something that people tend to find characteristic
for me, then it would be that I'm a very chill person who doesn't
have problems with anything. I have friends with piercings,
tattoos, wearing a dog collar all day, fingering herself on my
toilet and admitting it a month later (lol), texting me at 2 AM
asking if they can come for a visit (and usually getting a yes
So, that should give an idea of both myself and my friends. ^^
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. My life. Society. Ethics, culture and norms. My
partners. Kinky things. What you will be thinking when reading this
profile. How to get interested people to actually say hi instead of
reading this and being too shy to start a conversation.
You should message me if
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