Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Relatively young unit of the human species. Survived 28 winters and
counting. Still under warranty. I live in Belgium but I'm currently
visiting Fort Collins (CO) for a conference, and I'm looking for
people to have a fun day or night with.
I'm... different, probably. I can blend in when needed, but my
nature has always been to be different from the pack. I also often
have views that are very different from what most of society
thinks. Whether that is a good or a bad thing depends entirely on
I'm polyamorous and I'm in an open master/slave-relationship with a
girl from the US (who ironically is in Belgium while I'm here). If
you're interested in our lifestyle and want to know more, I'm
always open for questions, and I won't bite unless you like it.
Everything else you want to know is probably already in the parts
below, but you're always free to ask extra questions, or just send
an email to say hello.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At daytime, I'm a PhD student at Ghent Unversity, working somewhere
on the boundary of mathematics and computer science, so if 0's and
1's freighten you, this is probably not a good topic to talk about.
At night time, I can typically be found sitting behind my computer,
having friends over, reading up on various topics (psychology,
sexual ethics, evolution theory...), or hanging out on gothic
events or activities of
the local BDSM
student club Kajira (http://kajira.ugent.be
), which I founded some
years ago and which has repeatedly hit the news as Europe's first
state-funded BDSM group.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting a deeper understanding of how someone's mind works. For
several of my friends, I am the only person noticing when things
don't go well, and the only one that can get them back up. Or
making them feel less guilty about things society wants us to feel
guilty for. Especially the latter.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well... the first time I saw myself in a mirror is decades ago, so
I really don't remember and I think I may also have changed since
then. But feel free to tell me your first impressions. :)
If I have to pick something that people tend to find characteristic
for me, then it would be that I'm a very chill person who doesn't
have problems with anything. I have friends with piercings,
tattoos, wearing a dog collar all day, fingering herself on my
toilet and admitting it a month later (lol), texting me at 2 AM
asking if they can come for a visit (and usually getting a yes
So, that should give an idea of both myself and my friends. ^^
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. My life. Society. Ethics, culture and norms. My
partners. Kinky things. What you will be thinking when reading this
profile. What to talk about when I meet someone new (how am I
supposed to know what interests this person I don't know yet?).
You should message me if
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...your interest was sparked by reading the above and/or by
comparing our match questions. Don't be shy. Saying "Hi!" doesn't
I'm also on FetLife if that's more your cup (B0n0b0).
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