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HumbleScholar

38 / M / Straight / Single

Melbourne, Australia

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.76m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Other (Okay)

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I am humble, moody, and mostly fun.

My Self-Summary

People describe me as 'too soft'. I don't know what that means. I simply don't know another way of being. I like people. I believe in life. I know that there's a price to pay for everything. In the rest I'm the same as everyone else. One of the important goals for me is to be able to live my life without having to lie. This is not to say that I never lie or bend the truth, but every time I find myself doing so I consider it a weakness and a sign of me mishandling things. Does this make sense? It does to me. Another goal is to find the right balance in parenting of my son in order to give him enough freedom to be himself but also enough responsibility and discipline to have a better chance in life. The third and the last goal (a wish, really) is to find a life partner.

What I’m doing with my life

We'd like to think we're in control of our lives when we get a better job or a better house but often we feel like a piece of driftwood in a mighty current. I just let go and watch where life is taking me. Can't beat them - join them... :-) Hey if you know where this quote is from, message me: '...underneath our poised appearance we're completly out of control...'

I’m really good at

Imagining, daydreaming, problem solving, understanding, relating, moving on, spending money, organising, influencing, motivating. Sex.

The first things people usually notice about me

Have no idea. My accent? Oh and recently my thinning hair... Yes it's JUST thinning! And yes it's only temporary... until I cross over and go into the camp of Bald Men With Lots Of Hair Elsewhere.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Who cares? Really? If you do, message me for the list.

The six things I could never do without

Music. Love. Sex. Faith in humanity... Enough?

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Sex, actually. All when I exhaust that subject, meaning of life and other philosophical topics.

On a typical Friday night I am

Flying home. Or going out.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am loosing hair where it should be and aquiring where it shouldn't...go figure! On the bright side, I'm finally turning into a highbrow and becoming more self-sufficient and sustainable in terms of warmth.

You should message me if

If you can relate to any of my musings, I'd like to hear from you. Please do not 'woo' me unless your name is Angelina or Monica. On the second thought, don't woo no matter what.