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  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, and very serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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An Austinite since '94, and a freelance web developer since '13. I work from home which is amazing because I don't have to deal with traffic much, can set my own hours, and don't have to be anywhere in particular. The downside is that I'm often by myself, have little social interaction outside of my awesome house-mates, and can get distracted by things that take me out of my home-office.

I would love to be more active and in far better shape. I have insanity to help me with that and once I'm able, I'd love to find somebody to be active with me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a freelance web developer in a new job that's really challenging me to rise to the needs of the industry. Austin has an amazing community so I try to go to relevant monthly meetups as much as possible. Other than that I work really hard most days of the week, and like to unwind either at home watching Netflix, or with friends on east 6th.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, being a very decent human being, driving (especially long distances), doing exactly what I say I will do, being loyal and generous to my friends and loved ones, coming through in a pinch, making other people's lives easier, tipping appropriately, being a good human being, finding good movies and music to watch and listen to, singing alone in the car, learning new skills quickly, and drawing (or used to be; the perfectionist in me keeps me from doing much these days).

I'm also ridiculously good (at least compared to my friends) at Super Smash Brothers Melee for Gamecube. I lived in China for awhile and that's pretty much all I had. I can hold my own at chess but want to get really good at Go.

I'm terrible at making the first move. I really like who I am and am really happy with my life. It's been amazing. But I have a hard time reaching out to people I find attractive, likely because I'm a severe loner. So reach out first!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my eyes are the most commented aspect people compliment me on, but they most likely see my really long hair first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Haruki Murakami is my favorite author, though my favorite three books include the The Count of Monte Cristo (unabridged), and Catch-22.

Pink Floyd is by far my favorite band, followed by Tool, Alice in Chains, The Beatles, and NIN. I like music that has brilliance behind it, and usually inspired by the blues and thus rock. Beethoven is my favorite classical composer, followed by Bach.

Hannibal, Dexter, True Detective, The Wire, Penny Dreadful, Buffy, Firefly, and all other Joss Whedon works, Arrow has a surprisingly intense and deep cast and story to tell, It's Always Sunny, Arrested Development, Archer, and the list goes on and on.

I love Kirbey Lane for breakfast or brunch, East Side King for lunch, Ramen Tatsu-ya for dinner, and dive bars or great cocktail places for after dinner drinks. Could do that rotation every day and never get bored.

Across the Universe might be my favorite movie. It's so good! I also love Bram Stoker's Dracula, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill, Batman and Batman Returns, Edward Scissorhands, Big Fish, True Romance, Seven, Alien and Aliens, Goodfellas, etc. etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet
My brain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Newly revealed technological or scientific breakthroughs, how to prepare for the inevitable zombie apocalypse, or robot revolution, how we really need to get our shit together and get into space, about the "miracles" of life and impossibility of nature, and the puzzles I am to solve through programming.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out and about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This is a stupid question.
You should message me if
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This is an online dating site. Therefore, message me if you think I'm appealing or want to learn more. I'm very open, approachable, and will answer most questions. Even if I'm not romantically attracted to you, if you say something cool or funny, I'll likely reply. One can never have too many friends!