You didn't think this was tl;dr.
I messaged you first. It's the least one can do when I acutally put
some thought into my messages. If a profile was basically empty,
don't expect my initial message to be very long. I'm finding that
I'm very picky and don't message very often. If I messaged you, it
was for a good reason.
My criteria is if you're honest, intellectual, and easy going; and
can say more than "hi" when sending me a message
This shouldn't offend you:
My daughter is very important to me. She is a smart little girl and
challenges me all the time. You have to at least be able to get
along with her when the time comes to meet her, which is way down
I love to travel, money willing, and I need a somewhat spontaneous
girl to counter my tendency to be lazy and stay in. We can just
take off and travel for the weekend.
Now I don't think most of these things are too unreasonable to
find. If you think you fit what I'm looking for, feel free to send
me a message.
Also, if you're into metal (guy or girl), message me. I have a FB
group that posts new stuff and upcoming concerts.