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  • Ages 20–35
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:03pm
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a hypnotherapist who's an entrepreneur at heart. I spend my days figuring out how to make people's lives better and devising systems that run like clockwork.

In my spare time, I produce, write and occasionally act in short films.
What I’m doing with my life
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So far, during my lifetime, I've:

- Lived in five different cities, four of them in Canada
- Written a book with a porn star who was famous in the 90s
- Written some other books that are barely worth mentioning
- Started, shut down and sold numerous businesses
- Travelled to ten different countries
- Hypnotized people in front of large audiences for their entertainment and amusement
- Pitched my business on Dragons' Den, and received verbal abuse in return (what did I expect...)
- Had hamsters, budgies, a cockatiel, a dog, various species of fish, a turtle, a rabbit and cats
- Travelled to the edge of insanity and back

Currently I run a hypnotherapy clinic that has the mission of taking the mysticism out of the profession. I manage a team, train new hypnotists, and work directly with a few clients.

When I'm not working, I enjoy working out, dining at Toronto's fine restaurants, learning to play piano, playing with my cats and wandering the streets at night.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking a superior rare steak, explaining subjects I know deeply, looking good in a suit, breaking stereotypes and subverting the dominant paradigm.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall for an Asian guy and I receive a lot of compliments on my voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle by Haruki Murakami, anything by Charles Bukowski, Pale Fire and Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov, The Name of the Rose and Foucault's Pendulum by Umberto Eco, anything by William Shakespeare, Federico Garcia Lorca, Pablo Neruda, The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera, Invisible Cities and If On a Winter's Night a Traveller by Italio Calvino, Sandman and American Gods by Neil Gaiman, Dune by Frank Herbert.

Movies: Fight Club, The Matrix, Pan's Labyrinth, Dark City, Requiem for a Dream, Glengarry Glen Ross, Battle Royale, Brazil, Pulp Fiction, Shaun of the Dead, A Beautiful Mind, American History X, Memento, Quills, Secretary.

Television: I don't have cable, so most of the television I watch is on Netflix. I like Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Firefly, Twin Peaks, Arrested Development, Futurama, The Kids in the Hall and Dragons' Den.

Music: Tom Waits, The Magnetic Fields, Dan Bern, Jason Webley, The Dresden Dolls, The Flaming Lips, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Momus, Neutral Milk Hotel, Nick Cave, Pink Floyd, The Weakerthans, The Velvet Underground, Leonard Cohen, Neil Young, Cat Stevens, and a little bit of the old Ludwig Van.

Food: I love all of it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My BlackBerry, my car, my cats, reddit, a laissez-faire economic system and the freedom to do what I want, where I want, when I want.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, how much of it is controlled by the choices we make today, and what to do about it. I know the zombie apocalypse is a popular concern nowadays, but I spend more time thinking about ecological depletion and bad economic policies as causes of societal collapse. I would probably make a thoughtful politician for the Green Party, but the questions that OkCupid made me answer here torpedo any chance I have at holding public office.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Knee-deep in shenanigans almighty.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm into consensual power exchange.

Sometimes, I listen to Lady Gaga when nobody's watching.

People who have seen me naked don't usually pick my voice to compliment.
You should message me if
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You're self-aware, sincere and autonomous. Bonus points for being a 90% match or higher, or an ENFP.

Or you're a manic pixie dream girl!