1) Casual encounters - for either me, her, or us, these are straight forward enough. No drama please, no single men or 'just the guy', and aside from that pretty much anything is on the table for discussion. From a fun quick hotel get-together to whatever form of taboo sounds interesting at the time
2) Friendship with benefits - sexuality is a big part of our lives, and we'd love to spend more time with people around whom we don't have to hide that part. People we can drag out to to the nude beech or an adult club or to see the latest movie that came out. Or playing a board game at home, topless, eating cookies.
3) Long term - also known as the 'unicorn clause' - if we were to meet the right girl and everyone clicks, then having a third may become an option. But that's not something to look for, it is something that comes out naturally as we spend time with people.
4) Whatever happens really, as long as it isn't 100% vanilla all the time and we are not all trying to be proper and pretend we are not happy sexual beings who want to share that. And no drama.
Oh, and who I am.. well, the things I seek probably sum it up. I'm relaxed, drama-free, sometimes hippy, sometimes kinky, sometimes geeky, and very much laid-back. The rest, just ask