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34 M Beaverton, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Apr 1
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Romanian

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My self-summary
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I am glad that you are looking over this profile, so let me see if I can answer some of your questions. First off you may notice that I am not listed as single. For casual get-togethers this does not matter much but, to set your mind at ease, I do not cheat on those I am with and all my relationships are open - I do happen to be poly though. There are some things I cannot do with some partners though, and for that I am here. For example, would you like to be texted out of nowhere because there is a fun new dance class or erotic energy workshop? Perhaps there is a random parade we could hit together, or a convention. Or just an occasional coffee followed by giving me a chance to practice a new massage technique on you (with or without happy ending, your call, no charge either way). If you are into rope-work there are a few things I've been wanting to try out, if you are into drawing there are life-drawing sessions.. life can be a relaxed adventure and it is more fun when you can share that adventure with others, particularly when normal friend-zone limits can be expanded into benefits. And if something grows from that, I am not opposed to it, but it is not something I plan to force.

I am also fairly inclusive, with friends and acquaintances from just about every ethnic and social category, engineers, strippers, lawyers, artists, hippies, kinksters, street buskers and so on. If some of these groups are a problem for you no worries, just give me a head's up and I won't invite you out to events involving them (or at least give you a head's up so you can say no). I should also mention that sexuality is a big aspect of my life. It is not centered on penetration so much as exploration and touch, but it is there. Partners that like to be shared around, I find opportunities for that, those that don't aren't, and so on as long as everyone is having fun and maybe trying new things.

If you like what you read here, I'd love to hear from you - please feel free to message me. In theory my phone will let me know to hop on and respond, and I really do want to hear from you
What I’m doing with my life
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My life is coming together quite nicely and I am happy for it. I am constantly learning (everything), trying to help others without running myself ragged, meeting new people and settling into the west coast. At any given time I am usually trying to pick up two or three new skills, often enrolled in some degree or certificate (in addition to my job), working on my writing or art, and wanting to meet other people as excited about all the things this life can offer (but at an even comfortable pace). I have enjoyed mind alteration at times, though not as often now, want to start going to burns and dungeons again, need to take up yoga and martial arts again... It may sound like I am constantly running around, I am not. I really do everything fairly steadily, and I am not out every night. When there is something I want to do, I am there, when there is not I am quite content curling up and watching tv or reading a good (or cheap) book. Believe it or not I am an introvert, so I do need me-time to recharge my batteries.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
'Really good' is a relative term I suppose, so let me just compare myself to the average populus rather than the people I look up to in everything. I give a great deep tissue massage (trying to learn more now, and to pick up pressure-point and shiatsu), though I don't do draping. Because if I am going to work on you for ninety minutes for free, I am going to enjoy the perk of at least looking over you in the process. I am decent at photography - more specifically at photo-editing and a decent eye for framing, but I need a lot more practice. I am also fairly good with erotic-hypnosis but no, I can't make you do anything you don't want to do. No one can, in spite of what TV says. (TV also says you can take a 100x100 thumbnail and blow it up to the point where you can make out a guy's face in the reflection on the tea-cup. No, you can't) I am a decent 2D artist, digital 3D artist, can write code, poetry.. I suck at cooking though. That skill may take a while to bring back up.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am generally described as easy-going, relaxed, and a good listener. I know, none of these speak to 'throw me over a bench and ravish me' but they are what I usually hear on first impressions. It takes a lot for my temper to rise, and even then I'm good at keeping it controlled. That said, I'm not a push-over and quite a few people know they can rely on me when they need to, as long as they don't try to take advantage. Second impressions are that I tend to flirt quite a bit, with little shame but a fair amount of subtlety... most of the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Every room in my house is dominated by bookshelves so this is hard to answer.

Stranger in a Strange Land, Kushiel's Dart, The Alchemist, Eleven Minutes, Ender's Game, Forests of the Heart, anything Neil Gaiman, Letters from Earth, Book of Secrets, Snow Crash, A Madness of Angels, The Prophet.. sooo many more.

Movies? Again, so much..

Gattaca, 300, Green Mile, Sin City, Avengers, Pursuit of Happyness, Secretary, Cyrano de Bergerac, Despicable Me..

Shows.. not sure what medium that refers to.

Music? Hmm.. I am not really an audiophile, trusting to the kindness of strangers for what to listen to next.

The Doors, David Bowie, Blue Oyster Cult, Dio, Tenacious D, Cruxshadows, LMFAO, Lords of Acid, Irish Rovers, Ke$ha, Nickelback My Darkest Days, Charles Aznavour, Les Mis, and so on.

But don't list a singer and ask me what they played or vice versa, I don't do trivia, just know a song when I hear it, and keep it bookmarked most of the time.

Food? I'm quasi-vegetarian (I consider fish to be a delicious vegetable and I'm sticking with that) but I'm not terribly picky beyond that. (And I could care less if you eat meat or not). I love sushi, pasta (but watching my carbs), Indian food, Ethiopian food, Mediterranean, Greek, Chinese, American... never had much Bristish or French but I imagine I would like that too
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mind, my passion, my freedom, my freedom to explore, the sense of touch, new stories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever I am currently studying, sexuality (no, not as in 'oh I'd like to boink that', I mean everything from its roots in ancient cultures through all the modern variations, anatomy of it, etc), the connection between all things and all fields, how things work, where I want to go to next (As in 'to get to C I am currently doing A so by this date I can practice B which will lead to..'), the people around me..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No such thing as a typical Friday. I haven't had a chance to do too much since I got to Oregon but that is changing right now. In general on one Friday I might be playing a videogame or reading a book, on another I may be out relaxing in a coffeeshop downtown, another I might be taking up a new class or spending time with friends, another I might be seeing just how long I could keep a playmate on the edge of.. well, so on another I might be packing up to go to a burn or to catch a new movie, or visiting friends working at a strip club, and another I might just be cuddling with someone or a few someones.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ah, so I should give a head's up on an important bit, with the preface that penetration for sexuality is over-rated. That said, you know how you meet someone and are attracted to them, have sex with them, and think 'I wonder if they are clean' and 'I wonder if they would know if they are not'... Good news, you don't have to wonder with me, I know I am not STD free. What I have is fairly common in the population (HPV and herp), but it is there. No, it doesn't get transmitted through massage or cuddling or sex toys or non-intercourse based tantra or chatting (me and my current partner are quite sexually satisfied but don't have intercourse with each other and we still haven't reached a tenth of the things we could be doing), and yes I totally understand if you'd rather not risk it (that's why I'm being up-front in telling you). And if you are still reading, the other private thing is that I cried at the end of Bridge to Terabithia. Also, I have had a lot of girls and guys say that my butt looks sexy in a kilt.
You should message me if
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* You want someone to drag you out on random adventures without running you ragged,
* You want to get good massages with a minimal (but present) amount of groping,
* You are reasonably hwp and want the same,
* You want someone who may join you for some random activity (less clubbing / bar-scene / sports, more life drawing / drum circle / kink / movie),
* You want to be with someone who you can be open with and who will honestly not judge you for your tastes / kinks / past / current job,
* You like having intelligent conversations interrupted by random groping and flirting,
* You are non-mean, non-angry, non-dramatic, non-jealous, non-judgmental ,
* And if you are bi and poly we can see how long term develops as well!