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35 • Beaverton, OR • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–33
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 15
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English, Romanian
1) Casual encounters - for either me, her, or us, these are straight forward enough. No drama please, no single men or 'just the guy', and aside from that pretty much anything is on the table for discussion. From a fun quick hotel get-together to whatever form of taboo sounds interesting at the time
2) Friendship with benefits - sexuality is a big part of our lives, and we'd love to spend more time with people around whom we don't have to hide that part. People we can drag out to to the nude beech or an adult club or to see the latest movie that came out. Or playing a board game at home, topless, eating cookies.
3) Long term - also known as the 'unicorn clause' - if we were to meet the right girl and everyone clicks, then having a third may become an option. But that's not something to look for, it is something that comes out naturally as we spend time with people.
4) Whatever happens really, as long as it isn't 100% vanilla all the time and we are not all trying to be proper and pretend we are not happy sexual beings who want to share that. And no drama.
Oh, and who I am.. well, the things I seek probably sum it up. I'm relaxed, drama-free, sometimes hippy, sometimes kinky, sometimes geeky, and very much laid-back. The rest, just ask
Stranger in a Strange Land, Kushiel's Dart, The Alchemist, Eleven Minutes, Ender's Game, Forests of the Heart, anything Neil Gaiman, Letters from Earth, Book of Secrets, Snow Crash, A Madness of Angels, The Prophet.. sooo many more.
Movies? Again, so much..
Gattaca, 300, Green Mile, Sin City, Avengers, Pursuit of Happyness, Secretary, Cyrano de Bergerac, Despicable Me..
Shows.. not sure what medium that refers to.
Music? Hmm.. I am not really an audiophile, trusting to the kindness of strangers for what to listen to next.
The Doors, David Bowie, Blue Oyster Cult, Dio, Tenacious D, Cruxshadows, LMFAO, Lords of Acid, Irish Rovers, Ke$ha, Nickelback My Darkest Days, Charles Aznavour, Les Mis, and so on.
But don't list a singer and ask me what they played or vice versa, I don't do trivia, just know a song when I hear it, and keep it bookmarked most of the time.
Food? I'm quasi-vegetarian (I consider fish to be a delicious vegetable and I'm sticking with that) but I'm not terribly picky beyond that. (And I could care less if you eat meat or not). I love sushi, pasta (but watching my carbs), Indian food, Ethiopian food, Mediterranean, Greek, Chinese, American... never had much Bristish or French but I imagine I would like that too
* You want to get good massages with a minimal (but present) amount of groping,
* You are reasonably hwp and want the same,
* You want someone who may join you for some random activity (less clubbing / bar-scene / sports, more life drawing / drum circle / kink / movie),
* You want to be with someone who you can be open with and who will honestly not judge you for your tastes / kinks / past / current job,
* You like having intelligent conversations interrupted by random groping and flirting,
* You are non-mean, non-angry, non-dramatic, non-jealous, non-judgmental ,
* And if you are bi and poly we can see how long term develops as well!
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