Always compassionate. grateful. listening. playfully engaging. reflecting. resourceful and sometimes silly. ...honoring spirit. deeply rooted. openhearted. emotionally free & radically transformed. :)
living in love…ever evolving .
No longer fearful. stressed. sad. disconnected. lost. asleep or searching for meaning in my own life.
I am enjoying the journey & wondering when YOU will enter my life so we can adventure forward together.
I've been divorced and casually dating for about 4 years. Rediscovering myself, exploring who I am, learning to listen to and trust my inner voice. I've done a lot of work and am ready to get involved deeper with someone special. I'm in a really good place in my life. I'm healthy, Self employed with fulfilling and creative work. I have a nice house, in a beautiful area, close to an amazing community and some deep meaningful connections with great people. I've just enough challenges to keep me real and mindful. I've learned how to set personal boundaries, say no to things that no longer serve me and yes to adventures I want to explore. I've no debt and live very simply, yet comfortably. I really like who I am.
I miss having a long term partner.
So I can share those small daily joys, Moments. The days lived well, I want to meet and hang out with someone I can watch the sunset with and make dinner with and wake up in the middle of the night and watch them sleeping and feel my whole chest constrict because I'm in awe of the love I feel.
I want to feel their breath on my neck and their hardness against my back and mix our morning mouths together loving the taste of them because I'm hungry for them and the rest of the world can wait. I want to be able to sit together
without talking and both read our own books, comfortable in the togetherness. I want a sounding board for my crazy ideas and adventures, who can offer a different perspective and will listen and have a vested interest in the outcome. And someone who is there when I fuck up and says. "I love you" and
can hold me while I weep..... I desire to be a priority, not an option.
I am looking for someone who shares an awakeness
and a similar desire for exploring as I do. Someone who doesn't feel like 'change' can be defined by buying a new pair of shoes or taking up a new hobby. But rather by burning down the house. Sometimes that house is just the illusion of walls of our own making and the person holding your hand as you set the match is your guide wire that says 'I believe' and sees you in
the version of you you wish to be. There is deep and breadth and there is also unlimited. I choose the ocean over the lake.
I've been pushing my own comfort zones. So partnering with someone on a life adventure, without settling down, someone to both come home to and adventure forth with, someone who both complements and expands my world, is ultimately what I'm looking for. Sharing, growing together, bringing new ideas and thoughts into each others' lives. I gravitate towards open minds & progressive thinkers. I'm open to relocating.
I want to travel more, and not just get away for a couple weeks, but an open ended, explore, make it up as you go trip. I know the quote that says " ...all that stuff you want to do? Stop waiting for someone else, just go do it ..." I'm moving slowly in that direction alone. I would enjoy embarking on an adventure with someone who shares my curiosity for the world, yoga, connection to self and spirit. I feel much more comfortable living on the edge of traditional life. Although I can play the game of convention, that is not where my heart is. I've no issues with exploring relationships with people far away from me... Still, there must be a common purpose and a certain level of compatibility in our core values and approaches.
I believe in having adventures, and that some of the best adventures can start with a conversation.
I believe in holding hands when you’re scared, or sad, or for no reason at all.
I believe that forgiveness is the hardest, best thing you can give to someone who hurts you (and as you give it to them, you give it to yourself).
I believe in making wishes on stars and finding four leaf clovers and luck is something we make and it looks an awful lot like hard work.
I believe that love isn’t something that’s out there somewhere and we have to find it. I believe it’s that golden spark inside us, the sacred piece of us that has no words and needs no translation. When we open to share it with someone else, it’s not about how much we get, it’s about how much we give. And it doesn’t matter if it’s for a second, or a month, or five years, or a lifetime.
It only matters that we do.
It’s why we’re here.
You: What I've written so far resonates with you. Are courageous enough to be vulnerable. Know how to laugh from deep in your belly. You understand the importance of and are committed to self reflection and growth. You find a connection to spirit outside in nature, are comfortable in your body, are in good health and are physically active. You can appreciate the difference between being kind and being nice. Are self assured,emotionally mature, while still being playful. You have presence, you show up and follow through. You gravitate toward free spirited, strong, entrepreneurial women. Are not looking to create more children (if you have them already - great! I've birthed 4 - one 13yr old is still at home, I love my kids but they do not define me. You are a good, open, honest, communicator. You would rather create authentic shifts to more positive frames of mind by being deeply in touch with all your feelings. I’m not into “fake" positive thinking. Be authentic. Take risks. Be bold. Be brave. You understand jealousy is not an indicator of how much you love me. You are within a few years either way of 45.
I love to travel.... I've lived in several parts of Canada, traveled in Europe, India, Central America, Africa ... I love to immerse myself into different cultures, languages, food and delight in overcoming the initial fear of stepping forward into a complete unknown. My idea of a perfect trip is pretty street level and grass roots. I've had some fantastic adventures and find myself in awe of the beauty and diversity in our world. I find enjoyment in the small things - all day- every day.I choose to start each day from a place of gratitude. Being present in every moment. My road in life has not been mainstream. I am very creative, intense, driven by love, expression, my personal spiritual path, self reflection, curiosity.
I live in a little house surrounded by gardens and forests. I enjoy cities, but have found myself drawn to the slower pace of rural living. I believe in community. Alternatives. I Recycle. Reuse. Live on less. Compassion for people and our world are important to me. I also can do what I do anywhere. So it matters more who I am with - because I can feel at home anywhere.