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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38-64
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 26
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Gentleman version of Mr Grey still confounded by California woman after almost 4 years. If you're looking forward to the release of the hardcover edition of "Serial Dating on Medicare," then we are definitely not on the same page. I'd like to find someone who gets me before I get to Medicare. I'm extremely intelligent, healthy and fit. I took care of my Mother before she died when she developed dementia, I play tennis and even know some fun things you can do with the bed posts. So you can count on me, talk to me, play with me and get mischievously romantic with me. But only if you're ultimately looking for something that might last.

BTW, I don't care If you lied about your age as long as your photos and profile attitude aren't from a year that starts with 1! Mine will be revealed with government ID at first meeting
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've lived in California for four years now (a move from American Canyon to Martinez is planned, but I'm open to other areas not on the Hayward fault!) and still haven't gotten used to the fact that a really fun first date doesn't necessarily mean there will be a second one. What is up with that? I have a couple of theories:

*I thought I got rid of that damn visible panty line!
*I didn't realize my fly was down
*Women think I'm wearing a hair piece or that I dye my hair (I'm not and I don't)
*Endocrinology counts
*Serial dating is the new 40
*There must be/always is something better
*All/most of the above (I hope this is not the right choice!) BTW, the first bullet was a joke. I don't crossdress!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling it like it is and cutting to the chase.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'd love for you to tell me. Hopefully something good? For a first date, I usually dress pretty well which I understand is not typical of most men . But that's the point: I don't want to be like most men. If you want most men, you probably don't want me. I am the mysterious stranger; maybe the wrong kind of mysterious for you, but maybe the right kind too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I write my own music and play my keyboards all the time. Want to listen some time? I rarely have time to read a novel and like a lot of different types of entertainment and food. I recent read an article which suggested that eve the sweetest, most decorous persons that ever lived would eventually become a judgmental ***hole if they participated in online dating long enough. I hope this is not true, because if so then we are all wasting our time!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let's see: two eyes, two ears and two testacles. Does that add up to 6? Ooops! I misspelled testicles!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is it me or is it California?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wishing it was Saturday instead. My business still has many of its customers in NY, so I get up at 6am on weekdays so I can service them (oh yeah, and making money counts too). And to quote Yogi Berra, when you get up at 6, it sure gets late early!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a phobia towards a particular item of clothing that women on tv are wearing more and more. Yikes, how long does a fad last??
You should message me if
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You'd like a gentleman, think intelligence is the ultimate turn on and laughed at my self summary.