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IAMZANDER

36 New York, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Bi men only
  • Ages 40–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 29
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
LIFE_
Try to make your mind do nothing . You can't. . You're being breathed , being thought , being moved ,being lived . There's nothing you can do not to eat when it's time to eat, or sleep when it's time to sleep. If you watched, allowing whatever comes to come and whatever goes to go, you can realize and every minute that you don't need anything but what you have.Where are your hands right now? Who put them there? Did you do that? And then, no matter what you're thinking is, you it's moved again. Maybe it moved your foot. Maybe it swallowed, maybe it blinked your eyes,Just notice. That's how you enter not ~ doing, where everything falls into place.

While I realized I used my self summery to have you focus on you .....we are all the same
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently working on a new album and writing a screen play
I'm super excited about both.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at making jokes , sex, conversations about intergalactic space travel, explorations of new ideas
cooking , making myself feel good . Making the impossible..possible
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile and then...my teeth -
I've seen people also do a full body snapshot of me at times and well, thats hard to follow,
lately my hair's been taking center stage.
suppose you'll have to let me know when you see me-
or maybe not as that might be super awkward.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Nicholas Jarr, Asap Rocky The Delphonics ,Antony and the Johnsons, Arthur Russell, tyler the creator , Jeff buckley, Tim buckley. Brian Eno ,philip glass. santagold.Nina simmone, sigur ros, Annie Lennox,ethiopean Jazz. ethiopiques, Frank Ocean, The Knife, Grimes, purple crush, ziggy stardust, Roxy Music, Pulp , the Gosho.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
knowing that I am love
knowing that you are love.
music
nature
family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Gratitude and how it changes the Way I think about things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually on a stage somewhere dripping half naked and if not doing that ~ I'm looking for good conversations at a few of my favorite restaurants
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really really like sented magic-markers -like a lot, think it started in 2and grade,
I haven't bought any recently, but the love is super strong,
we can discuss the psychology behind that in person.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you're still reading and you like exploring your world for the fun of it