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38 M Evansville, WI

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–68
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
Hispanic / Latin
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I use the moniker IATAO online because "I'll Always Try Anything Once" - though I'll often try twice, just to see if I didn't miss something the first time. I have beeve in the BDSM/Kink community for over 15 years, and both attend and host several events. For details, posts and pictures you can find me at A friend thought it was useful to have a profile on OKC too.

Life is not all play, but I always say life is what you make it so let's make it fun!   I'm happily married with two wonderful children. For various reasons, my wife (who I met the kink through the community) is no longer able to play and isn't an active part of the kink community anymore, but she is knowledgeable and supportive of me being active and will sometimes help host parties with me or tag along to vanilla events with kinksters.

I have two limits I set with my wife, no kissing on the lips and no penetration. But I've become magical with my hands and toys, and enjoy all types of kink and bdsm play. Ultimately it comes down to being open to having fun with good people.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it with zest and vigor while keeping balanced between my family and my kinky friends when not having to work.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That being around good people makes me happy, so im usually bubbly and wearing a smile. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm an eclectic omnivore when it comes to the arts.
Music: From Vivaldi to Ravi Shankar, the Beatles to Green Day, Louis Armstrong to Parliment Funkadelic, Grand Master Flash to Eminem, Kenny Rogers to Mumford & Sons, and Simon & Garfunkel to Ed Sheeran.
Books: From The Epic of Gilgamesh to The Illiad, La Morte de Arthur to Don Quixote, Tolkien to David Eddings and so many others.
Movies/Shows: From The Sound of Music to Moulin Rouge, Dr. Who to Red Dwarf, Star Trek to Farscape, Lillies of the Field to 0 Dark 30, and SCTV to The Chapelle Show.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The same thing I do Saturday nights, hosting or going to Kink/BDSM events.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've already admitted a ton of private things. I guess maybe that I lost my virginity at 20 after watching Exit to Eden on VHS in 1996 and the hot felliw geeky woman who had invited me to Daytona Beach asked me to shower with her and asked me to smack her. What a journey it has been. :-)