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IAmA_Guy

28 M Holyoke, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:54pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Transplanted southerner, misses live oaks and bbq but prefers pants over shorts so it evens out in the end.

I'm a calm and contemplative person. I try to lead an examined life. I still do dumb shit, but at least I know why.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently started working with an urban farming nonprofit in Holyoke.

Most of my remaining time is divided between playing games (racquetball, pool, Chinese chess, rummy), gardening, reading, walking in interesting places, lounging in interesting places, driving the long route, canoeing, cooking to podcasts, and hanging out with friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sailing, growing things, brewing beer, navigating, charming old people, stealing naps, cynicism, optimism, the internet, crushes, and car-singing.

I'm also really good at not remembering the little thumbnail photos of people on this site, instead just clicking impulsively on any that stand out, only to realize I've done this exact thing a dozen times already. Not sure if anyone notices/cares, but every time it happens I imagine the looks of disapproval.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm 6'4", so my height?

Then, if we get to talking, they're bound to say something about my name.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like radical history and theory, sci-fi, biographies (auto and otherwise), adventure stories, local histories, 'the classics,' and graphic novels. I worked a couple years at a collectively run bookstore in Boston called the Lucy Parsons Center where I wound up doing most of the book ordering and used book hunting. Consequently I know a whole lot about a very small section of the publishing world, without being particularly well versed in the broader world of literature. Actively looking for a better balance now.

Star trek tng, on repeat.

I'll probably never tire of the pixies, sonic youth, fugazi, neutral milk hotel, electric wizard, or nirvana. That's an unintentionally uniform looking list but it's the stuff that's stuck with me over the years. Pop, rap, witch house, lo-fi garage rock, ethereal female fronted indie bands, the shit my friends and to a lesser extent myself make -- all deserve honorable mention.

I think that onion, vinegar, and bacon, individually or combined, improve the taste of almost any meal. Must be the Southerner in me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Shoes for walking, bicycles, friends, music, books, road trips.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Causing trouble, the perfect three wishes, where my cat goes, things I want to learn, things I need to do, my dream farm, the barriers we erect between ourselves and others, and along those same lines: did I really just say/do that?

Unfortunately it appears that I did. Now what?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nmh u?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've lived in a lot of places but none have been as confusing as Western MA.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Not necessarily my most important criteria, but feel free to message me if we have similar interests - especially regarding agriculture, politics, or recreating.

More importantly: if you like meeting new people, and you enjoy a drink or two, I can promise you that we'll have at least these two things in common, and that's usually enough for a good time. So, message me if that.

And last, folks of any gender: message me if you know what you're doing and want to play some racquetball. Seriously - even if you have little interest in hanging off the court, I'm always looking for new people to play with.