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IAmMyNirvana

22 / F / straight / Seeing someone

Norman, Oklahoma

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, Russian

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I am Introverted, Awkward, and Questioning.

My Self-Summary

I am on my journey to self-discovery. I am introverted and do not need much external stimulation. I prefer small groups. Sometimes I just sit and think or meditate. I love reading about behavioral profiling. I am moderately conservative in a few areas. My political beliefs are best described as libertarian. I despise censorship. I work night shift, which gives me an awkward sleep schedule. I believe a lot of mental disorders in the DSM-IV are not disorders, but rather labels made to control people who are 'different'. In some ways I'd agree with Thomas Szasz (The Myth of Mental Illness), but not to the full extent. I've been going to a quaker church and really enjoy it. They are very accepting, but I don't quite fit in yet. I am quiet until you get to know me, and even then I don't talk a whole lot. I am working on loosening up.

I have a boyfriend and plan on eventually marrying him. I am on here because it helps me procrastinate. I've been bored a lot lately.

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What I’m doing with my life

I am a student at OU majoring in Psychology and Criminology. I graduate in December 2010, but I need to be enrolled full-time the following semester to keep my insurance. So I am going to take the funnest blow-off classes at community college the following Spring. I'm working at a youth shelter part-time to pay the bills. I didn't really like little kids until I started working here. The kids are fun, and I love my job. I plan on going to grad school for quantitative psychology. I want to be a statistician. I want to either analyze data or develop/score tests. My lifetime goal is to find a cure for antisocial personality disorder. Maybe not so much of a cure, but a way to convince sociopaths to not act on their impulses.

I want to travel the world, especially Russia and Egypt.

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I’m really good at

I can make people feel awkward. I've found the best way to do that is simply by being completely honest.

I make the best peanut butter pie. Even though it's not my own recipe. The recipe is on jif.com, decadent peanut butter pie.

I think I'm a genius.

The first things people usually notice about me

People notice my amazing purple glasses. If I'm wearing contacts, they notice my hair first.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Atlas Shrugged, The Fountainhead, Brave New World, Stranger in a Strange Land, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, The Color Purple, books by John Douglas, A Doll's House (even though it's a play), Tao Te Ching. I am currently working on reading every book that has ever been banned or challenged.

Movies: What's Eating Gilbert Grape, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Little Miss Sunshine, Edward Scissorhands, Never Been Kissed, Notes on a Scandal, Ghost World

Music: AFI, Breaking Benjamin, Tracy Chapman, Lifehouse, Jimi Hendrix, Simon and Garfunkel

Food: chicken fried rice, dark chocolate, pasta

The six things I could never do without

turns out my basics are my ipod, ipod speakers, candles, the serenity prayer, select sayings from the tao te ching, and an amazing quote from Ibsen's A Doll's House "I must stand quite alone, if I am to understand myself and everything about me."

I spend a lot of time thinking about

People who deviate from social norms in antisocial ways.

How I can reach self-actualization.

Wishing i could teleport.

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On a typical Friday night I am

I work evening shift on Fridays, so I'm usually watching movies with some kids. Before I was working Fridays, I spent my Friday nights eating take out and watching t.v. That's how I celebrate the weekend.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

no thank you

You should message me if

You have something intelligent to say. Don't waste my time or yours with inappropriate or mass messages, please. I do have a boyfriend, so I am not looking for anything romantic/sexual.

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