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IAmNotMyShadow

42 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Christianity, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Sharp, inquiring, skeptical, Midwesterner, contrarian and ironist, iconoclast, science nerd, museum-goer, puckishly witty, curious, analytic, goofy, curmudgeonly, yet good with kids and kind to animals. I'm looking for someone to stay in with, go out with, to end sentences with prepositions with.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in libraries and archives, particularly in a museum setting. I'm trying to keep some houseplants alive with varying degrees of success. I play bar trivia religiously, see movies, read books, crack wise, ride a motorcycle.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a deep well of trivial knowledge, an excellent speller and am pretty skilled at being amiable company. Also taking naps.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Perhaps my preoccupied, bemused affect? A sardonically arched eyebrow? That my sweater is on backwards (This has happened surprisingly often).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Old science fiction, new science fiction, silent comedies, almost anything with Cary Grant or Audrey Hepburn. Sometimes (perhaps often) big explosions and special effects really hit the spot. Guardians of the Galaxy? Awesome.

Books: Recent reads include a biography of Jim Henson, a bunch of manga, Wolf Hall and Bring up the Bodies for the second time, the Flamethrowers, Catastrophe 1914 by max Hastings, the news (religiously), the New Yorker, comic books, the backs of cereal boxes.

Food: Yes please. I will eat whatever is put in front of me and likely enjoy it. I'm not the most experienced cook but an eager assistant chef (and dish washer.)

Music: Lately I've been amused to find myself absorbed by Jackson Browne, Glen Campbell, Bobbie Gentry and others who straddle the country/pop divide.

TV: I'm led to understand I'm missing some good stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can't answer this at all to my satisfaction.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Old things, databases, spaceships, art, the apocalypse, dinosaurs, Legos.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not working.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You like repartee and sleeping in, you want help finishing the Sunday crossword but don't need it. You're looking for something steady and reliable but also filled with surprises. You think anything worth doing is better shared.