Above all, I'm a staunch existentialist: existence precedes essence, no inherent meaning, we create our own purpose, to do is to be, ultimate freedom = ultimate burden, etc. That line of thought directs the vast majority of my behavior.
I am in an open relationship, but more closely identify with the "free love" attitude of decades past than with the militant polyamorism here on OKC. I like to go with the flow. I get not wanting to conform to societal norms; I don't get wanting to be so rigidly defined by your relationship habits!
So come on, let's get acquainted!