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ICFilosofer

32 La Mesa, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 24
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern, White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm having a hard time w/ the "summary" aspect of this, so here are some random facts:

- My motto is "keep calm and question everything".

- My life story includes being a refugee, traveling all over the world, multiple jobs involving blunt objects being swung at my head daily, and a professional's understanding of political strategy.

- I'm a huge social science nerd and LOVE to talk about politics, religion, culture, human behavior, and so forth. These topics are not taboo, they're interesting; and help us to understand ourselves and each other.

- On the other hand - professional sports, celebrities and popular culture, and technology generally don't do a thing for me.

- My family is my first priority even when they drive me up the wall.

- My closest friends are still mostly the ones I had in high school or even middle school.

- I'm on civil terms with most of my exes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- I work full time as a community organizer (yes, we're real). I was trained for this in Social Work school, so my specialty is consensus building - finding common ground between people that seem to have none, or even dislike each other.

- I Life Coach for individuals and families on the side, using holistic intervention methods; because I really don't care for the bureaucracy and restrictions of modern licensed psychotherapy.

- I also write. A LOT. Most of it is political blogging and editorials, and some of that gets paid for and published. The rest is poetry and prose, mostly just to stay sane.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making friends out of enemies and engaging the disengaged.

Over-thinking things to the point of awkwardness, then surprising people with how much use I can get out of that analysis.

Cooking bland but delicious Russian food.

Mental math.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If they initially met me online - it's the complete LACK of a Russian accent. However, for women who find that attractive (and I know you're out there) I can turn it on, and it sounds legit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I faithfully read profiles before writing to anyone, which I know is uncommon, but even I NEVER bother w/ this section. Which leads me to assume practically no one reads it and it's just plain not worth keeping updated. If you want to know, just ask.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My family, including a few friends I consider family
- Sunglasses
- An Android device w/ high-speed internet
- My Smith & Wesson Special Ops (that's a utility KNIFE, not a gun)
- Black clothing
- An occasional silence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The same cliches everyone mentions - world peace, resource plentitude. etc. However, my thinking on this is about social science and organizing models.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Times of day and days of the week are thankfully meaningless to my profession, because I'm very nocturnal and dread the 9-5 grind.

However, I enjoy hookah bars, dives, coffee shops, a good local show, and any social gathering more intimate than a packed downtown club.

I'm adept at counting cards (it's nothing like the movies), so occasionally you might find me at a local casino.

I'm also perfectly fine staying in, but I do like to be doing SOMETHING - even if it's cooking a nice meal and renting a movie or playing a card or board game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I make very elaborate yet low-budget Halloween costumes from scratch every year, and when I wear them, I find myself secretly wondering how well they might mask my identity for subversive activities.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Just go for it. I find interest and intrigue in almost anyone, and I'm a lot less intimidating than I sometimes seem.