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ICFilosofer

33 La Mesa, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern, White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
ESTJ. Yes, I'm a bit of a Vulcan - firm, rational rather than emotional, and consistent to a fault. As a result, my family are my first priority even when they drive me up the wall, my closest friends are still mostly the ones I had in high school, and I'm on civil terms w/ most of my exes.

My life story is bizarre and complicated. I came to the US as a refugee at the age of 9. I've travelled all over the world. I've had multiple jobs involving blunt objects being swung at my head. I've studied and even practiced BDSM as a means of behavior modification. Now I'm building a career in politics, although I consider myself a nihilist and an anarchist.

I'm a huge social science nerd and LOVE to talk politics, religion, culture, human behavior, and sex. These topics are not taboo, they're interesting. On the other hand - professional sports, celebrities, popular culture, and trendy technology bore me to tears.

I'm not a very outdoorsy person overall, but I LOVE hiking and camping, particularly in relatively secluded places.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I hold an MSW, and I divide my time between an independent Life Coaching practice and short-term Community Organizer contracts. I'm in the brainstorming stages (w/ a couple of friends) of launching a political consulting firm that teaches "little people" political self-advocacy, but we're not exactly ready for IPO yet. During political work dry spells, I drive for Uber/Lyft if I need extra money.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Convincing people I'm psychic.

Convincing people I'm a robot.

Making friends out of enemies.

Cooking bland but delicious Russian food.

Mental math.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If they initially met me online - it's the complete LACK of a Russian accent. However, for women who find that attractive (and I know you're out there) I can turn it on, and it sounds legit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I faithfully read profiles before writing to anyone, which I know is uncommon, but even I NEVER bother w/ this section. Which leads me to assume practically no one reads it and it's just plain not worth keeping updated. If you want to know, just ask.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My family, including a few friends I consider family
- Sunglasses
- An Android device w/ high-speed internet
- My Smith & Wesson Special Ops (that's a utility KNIFE, not a gun)
- Black clothing
- An occasional silence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human behavior. Individual, group, societal.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Times of day and days of the week are thankfully meaningless to my profession, because I'm very nocturnal and dread the 9-5 grind.

However, I enjoy hookah bars, dives, coffee shops, a good local show, and any social gathering more intimate than a packed downtown club.

I'm adept at counting cards (it's nothing like the movies), so occasionally you might find me at a local casino.

I'm also perfectly fine staying in, but I do like to be doing SOMETHING - even if it's cooking a nice meal and renting a movie or playing a card or board game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I make very elaborate yet low-budget Halloween costumes from scratch every year, and when I wear them, I find myself secretly wondering how well they might mask my identity for subversive activities.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Just go for it. I find interest and intrigue in almost anyone, and I'm a lot less intimidating than I sometimes seem.