**I deleted all of the messages I received while I was inactive because it has been so long. If you still want to be friends, (No, not have a 3some with me) please message me back =)

I'm 23 and I've lived in Durham for a year. I've come back to OKCupid because I hope there's someone out there who is looking for a real friend and not some sleezy hookup or someone who makes plans and never follows through. I live in Durham and work in Raleigh. My interests are varied, I can be girly and dress up and go shopping or dancing but I am also into things like (trying) to cook or going hiking or fishing. I like to keep things interesting and light hearted. I am looking for a best friend who comes over in the middle of the night to eat ice cream and watch stupid movies and we cry about boys and make margaritas together.

I am in a relationship with an awesome guy and have been for a year - and I'm not looking to change it. If you're my bestie, you're going to see a lot of him, and my friends always love him, so it's not uncommon for us to have 3 way "dates" at nice restaurants or movies and such.

I don't care about your weight or your race or what you do for a living. None of that matters as long as you're a good person.

I am a DORKFISH! And I love it.

Nothing, because I want to do everything! UNC told me that I can't quadruple major to be a ninja/ballerina/astronaut/cowgirl. So right now I bartend and do bartendy like things, like give people plates of food and make them laugh for money.

Making people laugh and feel comfortable. I greatly enjoy cooking although I'm not sure exactly how stellar my culinary skills truly are.

The first thing people say they notice about me: my eyes. I also get many compliments on my outgoing, upbeat attitude. I've been told that I'm the worlds "smiliest" person that's not on medication.

Favorite movies:

Everafter, Grease, the Curious Case of Benjamin Button, the Time Travelers Wife, Inglorious Bastards, The Pianist, Rebel Without a Cause, Edward Scissorhands, the First Wives Club, How to Train your Dragon, Pans Labyrinth, Pulp Fiction, Let Me In

Books:

Pride and Prejudice, Desperation, Dante's Inferno/the Divine Comedy, Beautiful Children, Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs

Books, music, hugs, laughter, my little brother, a dance floor

Ways to make things better for everyone. How I can make a difference. My future.

I've lost over 70 pounds since December :o I was a lot of woman! Lol :)

You're looking for someone to hang out with who's laid back and easy going. I transition easily between the bar scene to fine dining, concerts to art shows. My interests are quite varied.