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39 • Sunnyvale, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 10:26pm
- Asian, White
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Graduated from masters program
- English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), German (Poorly)
I'm somewhat shy around new people, but I open up once I get to know them. My sense of humor is generally dry and sarcastic, with a touch of absurdism. I'm not afraid to try new things, but I'm rarely motivated to seek them out. Meeting someone who would help me get out of my comfort zone would be nice.
I work as a software engineer. I've spent a moderate amount of time travelling both within the US and internationally. I love to eat, especially at fancy restaurants, and I definitely like trying new foods.
My hobbies are mostly indoor activities: reading, watching TV (particularly anime), movies, and sports, and collecting Scotch whisky.
I've been studying Japanese. (I'm half Japanese on my father's side.)
I'm learning to scuba dive. I got to dive the Great Barrier Reef in March. Where should I go next?
Keeping my promises
Anime: Everything. Ponyo, Death Note, Bleach, Naruto, Spirited Away, Black Lagoon, Maria Watches Over Us.
Movies: Sideways, Little Miss Sunshine, Memento
Books: Anything by Richard K. Morgan or Michael Lewis. I've been reading a lot of werewolf/vampire fiction lately by authors like Kelley Armstrong, Kim Harrison, and Carrie Vaugn.
Humor: Mostly absurdist and surrealist humor. I enjoy groups like Monty Python, Upright Citizens Brigade, Firesign Theatre, and Dr. Science (aka Duck's Breath Mystery Theater)
TV: Arrested Development, Old episodes of The Simpsons, Mad Men, Entourage
Music: Mostly rap and some industrial.
Food: Foie gras, of course. Sushi. Fancy French restaurants. Cheesesteaks. BBQ.
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