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31 • Toronto, Ontario, CA • Cis Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 27–35
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 25
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Leo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Fluently)
Hosting any friend or friends who show up in Toronto and need to crash.
Loving my cats, Penelope Taco Supreme and Special Agent Dale Cooper. No amount of dignity is spared my love for them <3
making espresso, roasting coffee beans pouring slightly misshapen latté art!
mapping out a list of recommended coffee shops in Toronto
Accidentally overconceptualizing anything in conversation :P
Not being perturbed/upset by anything unless there is a practical reason for being so.
My lovingly stickered laptop.
My questionably-fabulous colour coordination on outfits.
My quite-shaven head.
I tweet often, and I tweet weird.
Movies: I don't casually watch films and haven't been paying attention recently, my favourites are film studies stuff like David Lynch, Jean Luc Godard or weird fun stuff like Repo Man. But with enough prodding, I'll watch any movie at least once.
Television: Frankly, after watching Orange is the New Black and The Wire I can't get myself into most American television anymore. I am trying to relive my misspent youth by rewatching and love-mocking the entire Star Trek series. It has its own problems, but anime has more chances of engaging me with socially-driven narratives than most western media IMHO. I will get around to Portlandia and Broad City .... eventually.
Books: Programming textbooks and philosophy essays, Science Fiction classics like Ursula K. Le Guin or Octavia Butler, post-modern classics like Gravity's Rainbow or Infinite Jest. I have an incredibly soft place in my heart for Jorge Luis Borges or the Dune series. I've been amiss in not keeping up in literature.
Videogames: Grew up on 80s gems like Ultima and King's Quest and only a little smug about it! Nowadays when I have time I'm super into Mass Effect and Dragon Age and Dark Souls but I find myself being more interested in games-as-art by independent authors.
Internet: I don't do Reddit or Hackernews. I generally find out everything from Twitter geeks and feminists.
If I wind up on a Wikipedia page on human languages or historical civilizations I will be trapped for hours.
Food: I intend on eating at every bibimbap place in Toronto before I ever leave, I dream of delicious pupusa and I have recently discovered that I will never tire of Tibetan food.
Saint John's Wort
My TTC metropass
Headphones for whatever music I'm feeling the need to listen to at the time!
how much more esoteric computer science I could learn
how to trick my cats into just that much more cuddling
figuring out how I can help my my cis straight white-passing nerd dude demographic become kinder while still generally being afraid of conflict and people :P
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Wandering around parts of the city that I've never explored or urban areas that I particularly enjoy.
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Seeing a band because I like the music (or the venue!)
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At a café with a book or laptop.
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chilling with friends.
I'm terrified of engaging people unsolicited, which is very self-defeating here, eh?
You aren't allergic to cats.
You are cool with with someone who is generally introverted and detached, and will deal with me firmly but calmly if I accidentally screw up or something.
You like having conversations about abstract stuff, there's probably going to be lots of them (;o.o)
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