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IOPan

53 / M / straight / Single

Hayward, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am Thoughtful, Romantic, and Optimistic.

My Self-Summary

After a lifetime in New York City, I became sick of the snow and cold and now live in the San Francisco Bay area, where the weather is fine but the earth tends to move on occasion. I've been on a Wiccan/pagan path since 1977. Do alot of walking, reading and love going to hear live music, likely because I have no musical talent of my own. I am a gentleman, intelligent and I think I have a good sense of humor (others would disagree). My friends say I'm quirky, I'm sure that's a nice way of saying something else but I'm not sure what.

What I’m doing with my life

I usually enjoy my job. I ask people for money, although I guess the technical title of grant writing and prospect research sounds sexier. I do what I can to give back, but other than that I just like doing what expands my horizons, piques my interest or just makes me happy.

I’m really good at

I write well and can hold a pleasant conversation.

The first things people usually notice about me

They never tell me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

That covers alot of ground. I like to read a very wide variety: classics, urban fantasy, histories, politics, science. Music I like just about everything (havn't heard any rap or hip-hop and very little country that I like) but favorites: jazz, classical and Celtic. Food, yes I like food very much. I have been a vegetarian from about 23 years.

The six things I could never do without

Air, coffee, water, books, food, friends.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Way too much, and nothing I'm going into here. Leave me some air of mystery.

On a typical Friday night I am

5th amendment

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

See that part "I spend alot of time thinking about".

You should message me if

If you'd like to. I can't promise I'll write back, but I like getting mail.