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I_am_TaraMac

34 F Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Hospitality
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Relatively sane. Sometimes weird (but who isn't really?). Inconveniently indecisive. But definitely love pork, wine, and coffee. Sometimes my North Carolina shows, usually when I am drunk, and I am no stranger to drunkenness. I say dang, holy moly, and geez louise, seriously. Not that I avoid the hard stuff... But sometimes in the middle of a serious curse filled rant, I throw in a show stopping "DANG!" I find that more embarrassing than the profanity I sometimes spew. Cannot take a good picture to save my freaking life, but pretty cute, if I do say so myself...
What I’m doing with my life
I have a super intense job that I love. I love my job... a lot. I'm in the restaurant business and therefore have lots of opinions about dining and service, etc. My job is my life... You cannot be jealous.
I’m really good at
Getting riled up about something that probably shouldn't rile anyone up... and then ranting about it. I love ranting... Also, crossword puzzles. bad trivia. sitting at bars. lists. making you laugh when you really don't want to. Giving opinions. And also listening without giving opinions. And laughing... Sometimes inappropriately. Actually often inappropriately...
The first things people usually notice about me
Short hair. Big eyes. Arms akimbo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
One Hundred Years of Solitude, To Kill A Mockingbird, The Master and Margarita, The His Dark Materials trilogy, The Secret History. I love reading Murakami until the end... Why are his endings so unsatisfying? I have been a terrible reader the last few years... I'm working on fixing that.

Annie Hall, When Harry Met Sally, Lost in Translation, Princess Bride (your's too, I know). I will watch Shawshank Redemption any time I see it from any point in the movie...

Game of Thrones, Orange is the New Black, Top Chef (judge if you must), Community, Parks and Recreation, Seinfeld reruns, and though it hasn't been good in so long... Grey's Anatomy. I need that show to get cancelled so I can stop caring. I watch too much TV... Never in real time.

I listen to podcasts more than music these days... WTF, Savage Love, This American Life, RadioLab, Here's the Thing, a lot of Heritage Radio.

Trying to catch up... Jason Isbell has recently reminded me that I do love Southern singer/songwriters. Constant loves include Wilco, The Decemberists, Arcade Fire, The Beatles, Magnetic Fields, Rilo Kiley, The Flaming Lips, Bon Iver, Stephen Malkmus, Pavement, but always looking for something new (currently unable to stop listening to Bruce Springsteen...).

Everything. I love food. But really I love the experience of dining out. My favorite moment of a meal (and it doesn't always happen) is when the food is put on the table and no one speaks for minutes because the world has ceased to exist outside of their mouths. I love and hate being in restaurants. I am trying to get better at enjoying dinners at home. But I really don't cook. Can, but don't.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee
Chapstick
My friends
Music
A good bottle of wine
Passion/passionate people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my job. drinking. can I go one more week without a haircut or will I just look like a Beatle? Is this online dating thing worth it? What is the next restaurant I need to go to? Are all of my friends who are 30 and married and have babies normal? Or are they freaks? my job. Pay for TV? Where will I get my next cup of coffee? When do I get to retire to New Orleans? my job. What's up with dudes who don't like horror movies? There are sooo many of them. Beer or wine?
On a typical Friday night I am
Taking it easy after a long week... Or blowing off steam after a long week. I really could be doing just about anything...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I had a tarot card reader in New Orleans tell me I was mystically sensual. People in the know have not disagreed.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you figure the worst that could happen is you have a drink or a cup of coffee with a stranger, and the best is something fun.